i_am_Allan
57 Washington, United States
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My self-summary
I am a Jewish Hippie Tantrica Communitarian Brazilian American Libertarian Vegetarian 6’2” eyes of blue, long brown hair and beard, Non Smoker.

Synchronicity is my theme. I find I generally have an inordinate number of coincidence and overlap with everyone I meet. In mathematical terms, I'm what's known as a weak link/ readily available for connection.

I prize honesty above all. I constantly strive to see life as it is; in the manner of a fair witness as in " Stranger in a Strange Land". I agree with Heinlein's concept of personal responsibility in love and relationships. Compersion is my guiding light in how and whom I love. I am polyamorous (together, not apart) with an essential need for commitment to ride the rough path to coexistence. I want us to share and choose life’s risks and pleasures together, both emotional and physical. I wish for someone to want my happiness as much as I want their’s. I want to dream together. I tend to live quietly amongst the extremes. I have many wonderful lifelong friends around the world that I often visit as well as extended family.

Having been told I'm a closet monogomist, I must make a clarification regarding my understanding of Polyamory. Having been "cheated on", I never wish to repeat the experience or cause someone else to know that misery. People are naturally interested in others at various times and to varying degrees. Polyamory creates an avenue for emotionally safe exploration while allowing each individual the clarity to invest or retreat as they want and there is no loss of love, dignity, or self esteem. In such an honest environment, we grow closer as we discover our own range and abilities without suffering loss.

I want a Jewish woman that values honesty across the spectrum. I want you to be committed to joint decision-making and open to sexual exploration within our mutually predetermined choices. I want to travel together, to Rainbow Gatherings, Pagan festivals, and new places around the world. I want us to be primary.

I want you to want me. In you and with you.

Allan
(202) 222-5643

I am guiless, faithful, and warm
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in the design phase of building my dream house. A four level triangular modern/ New Orleanian on the park with sauna, steam, and hot tub on the roof to watch the stars.
I’m really good at
Fixing things
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told regularly that my appearance differs from my nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Tom Robbins, Richard Bach, Princess Bride, NPR, Mind Twisters, Forro; Choro, Vegetarian-Vietnamese-Thai-Soul-Jewish-Outdoors
The six things I could never do without
Travel, Talk, Intimacy, Friends, Family, and Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything
On a typical Friday night I am
Asleep
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The light of day cleanses all shame. Where should I start?
You should message me if
you share any of my inclinations and would like any level of relationship from sophic discourse to eternal bliss.
If you like me, you should call me. (See above)
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