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My self-summary
I am only looking for friends right now. Sorry, I'll be married as of April 23rd!

I can't sum up who I am in this small of a space, so here's the condensed version:
I'm a nerd, and I'm very proud of it. I love gaming and anime. I played the flute in my high school marching band. I wear glasses when I read. I have a dog that I love even though she's mind-bogglingly stupid.
Want more? Damn, you're demanding.
I'm never sarcastic (yeah, right). I don't like it when people ask stupid questions. (Case in point: I'm wearing my work uniform. Some guy asks, "Hey! Do you work at Waffle House?" No, I just wear a random uniform for fun.) I have a tendency to call people 'hon', 'babe', 'dear', and 'chico/a'.
Still want more? You're getting creepy.
I loved high school, and I wish I hadn't already graduated. I'm told I can be kind of scary. My best friend is like my sister, and her boyfriend is my Onii-chan. (Big brother). I love them both, but Onii-chan can be a bit overprotective. I like guys (and girls) who can handle the fact that I'm intense and very, very loyal. My loyalty and empathy run deep.
Want even more? Now you're a stalker.
I will talk about hot girls just as easily as I will talk about hot guys. It doesn't bother me in the slightest. (This is probably one of the reasons that most of my friends are of the male variety.) I consider myself pretty intelligent, and I do not like being made to feel otherwise. I really, really, REALLY hate arrogant people. On another note, in my eyes, we are equal regardless of gender, color, race, religion, background... get my drift?
Still more? I'm beginning to be scared of you.
I am very spiritually open, and I do not practice a certain religion. I love the paranormal. It intrigues me. I'll play pretty much any video game you set in front of me (aside from sport games. If I wanted to play football, I'd go outside and play football). I'll watch any anime you hand me without exceptions
Okay, I'm making this too easy for you. You'll actually have to talk to me to learn more.

I am nerdy, open, and a space cadet
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated college with a BA in Criminal Justice. Now I work for a law office managing all their data tracking and collection. It's a lot less glamorous and interesting than it sounds. >.>
I’m really good at
Listening. I get that a lot. I'm the one that my friends will come to when they need to talk.
Hugs. I love them. :]
Writing. I write a lot of poetry and I am very very slowly working on a novel.
Singing. Growing up, I really wanted to be a singer/actress.
Marching in the marching band! I don't have the time in college, but high school was wonderful.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a magical unicorn! I mean, I'm a redhead.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-Anything manga
-Anne Rice novels
-True crime novels
-Ann Rule novels
-Harry Potter
-Blue World, Mine, Mystery Walk, Boy's Life, Swan Song (all by Robert McCammon)
-John Saul novels

-Pan's Labrynth
-Silent Hill
-The Ring
-The Uninvited
-Saw movies
-Hellraiser movies
-American Psycho
-The Haunting in Connecticut
-Basically any halfway decent horror/thriller movies

I Am Ghost, Vertical Horizon, Cake, Soundgarden, Incubus, The Cab, Death Cab for Cutie, Postal Service, Passion Pit, Maroon 5, Evanescence, The Eagles, Styx, Tokio Hotel, Plain White T's, Paramore, Imogen Heap, Yes, The Rocket Summer, System of a Down, Owl City, AFI, Enigma, Daft Punk, Muse, Flyleaf, Marilyn Manson, Electric Six, Crossfade, Oingo Boingo, Them Crooked Vultures, La Roux, Coheed & Cambria, Metric, Aphex Twin, Tears for Fears, Foreigner, Panic at the Disco, Rilo Kiley, Brand New, Anything that comes from musicals... There's more, but I'm drawing a blank now...

-Chocolate (Hey, I'm a girl, get over it)
-Italian (I love pasta)
Six things I could never do without
Friends, my puppy, internet, good music, video games, anime
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm a worrier. I don't feel completely awake if I am not worrying about something.

I make lists in my head. It helps keep me organized so I don't forget to do things. It's.... definitely not foolproof, as I tend to forget things anyway.

I spend a lot of time trying to go over everything that happened in my last relationship to see where I went wrong. I doubt myself a lot, and I tend to blame myself for such breakups.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing whatever current video game has caught my fancy. Lately Steam has been having amazing sales...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Erm.... I put up a tough sarcastic front but I'm just as susceptible to typical girly things. I may be a total video game nut but I still enjoy going out with my bestie and getting my nails done or some such thing.
You should message me if
You think I'm interesting and you are capable of sentient thought and actual conversation. If you message me in chatspeak, I will probably not answer you. Or, if I'm having a bad day, I'll send you back a lecture. You have been warned. :)

I don't claim to make a lot of sense, but hey, sanity is boring.
The two of us