iambertocus
45San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
SF native. I'm a mix of athlete, geek, rebel and artist. Currently, I am recovering from knee surgery and hope to be back running, snowboarding and general ass kicking soon.

I'm seeking like minded spirits to explore this amazing world of ours, hopefully leading to long term. I practice authenticity and authentic relating and hopefully you do too.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a Product/UX Designer. Of all the things in life, it's what I do best and I am one of the best. A few years ago, I had quit tech and got certified as a nutrition coach. I had plans to go deeper into fitness, teaching martial arts, etc. However, I got called back into the design world to help a little company grow their online business—and now we are the fastest growing company in the Bay Area.

I've been into spirituality and transformation—you know, woo woo stuff. But, I'm going through a break-up with it, or to be clear, things like spiritual profiteering. It's complicated. Ask me about it if you like. On that note, I wasn't a yoga person but recently got into because it has helped the most with my recovery from knee surgery—plus it helps me sleep so well.

I also go on adventures—local and far, natural and urban, culinary, cultural, sometimes strange, sometimes extreme.
I’m really good at
Typography
Jeopardy
Snowboarding
Martial Arts
Slowing Down
Making Charts
The first things people usually notice about me
My calm vibe and chill demeanor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Hagakure, Fight Club
Authors: Palahniuk, Murakamai, Fitzgerald, Gaiman

Movies: I love the act of going to the movies: sitting in a dark room with a giant screen, eating snacks--anything from serious to classic, to foreign, to gratuitous blockbuster. Bill Murray.

Music: I enjoy most genres but my favorites are Underworld, Sigur Ros, Jawbreaker, Naked Raygun, Jets to Brazil, Catherine Wheel, Massive Attack.

Shows: Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, The Wire

Food: I love culinary adventures but some of my favorites are sushi (omakase!) and coffee.
Six things I could never do without
My lucky bracelet
A good pair of boots
A little sketchbook
A daily dose of sunshine
Something with a camera on it
Peaceful walks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I don't like to think much, just be in the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
typically? I relax and get ready to enjoy my Saturday early. Some times I'll go out and some times I'll go work out.
You should message me if
You have a passion in your life that has you feel alive.
You're authentic and know how to express your truth.
You want to play full on when it comes to dating, not the typical SF thing where people have one foot out the door, and you want the same from me.
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