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My self-summary
So we were suppose to do intro posts so here's mine. It's LONG but I'm worth it. :)

I'm Hector Mercado and I'm 36. I moved to Oklahoma 4 years ago from the east coast. This has caused me MANY hardships dating here. One I have no kids and want a family. Many people my age here are totally done with that aspect of their life. I've even met a few 34 year old grand parents. The second is I'm an atheist. (No that doesn't mean I worship the devil. Yes I still say bless you and merry Christmas). The third is I'm very pro individual rights (IE gay marriage and abortion).

I am the senior recruiter for a call center here in OKC. I've become very good at my craft over the past few years. I'm remarkably good with children for someone who doesn't have any. Something about being 15 years older than my brother and running a group home for 3 years sunk in haha. I'm super romantic, I like sending cards and flowers and getting people small tokens of my appreciation. I'm a giant nerd, I play video games and board games and wanted to go to comic con. My "perfect partner" would know how to get dressed up and be a great "plus one". My company has happy hours for major accomplishments, a Christmas party and a trip that I could win to cancun every year. I'd love to have someone who's comfortable doing those things. I don't want to "make you", as a matter of fact I won't. So if you liked my intro please feel free to say hello. I won't bite, well unless you like that kinda thing :p
What I’m doing with my life
I spent 10 years as a cell phone sales person. I was very good at it and I made good money but I got no time to myself and I was tired of being a number and not a person. I now work as a recruiter. I love what I do.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. I don't care if it's at me, at themselves or something totally random.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically? My eyes are nice I have been told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
So I guess this is the box that says "Hector is a nerd!". And that's okay with me! I love Harry Potter, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Comic book movies, Braveheart, and anything (other than twilight) that is nerdy enough to have a midnight premier.
Six things I could never do without
GPS- I've lived here a year, I don't know where anything is.

Starbucks- trenta iced coffee w sugar free vanilla 4 Splenda and cream if you're buying.

Apple- Yes I am one of those, no I will not debate it with you.

My car- I don't know how people get away without driving

My sense of humor- Without it I would have been driven mad long ago haha

Passion- My passions may have changed over the years but the fact that I am passionate has not.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What it will be like when I have a family and why women who are nerdy aren't more prelivent. We need more!
On a typical Friday night I am
I usually won't be at the "club". I'd rather be playing board games, laser tag (suit up!), or just watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I feel sort of empty without a family to come home to after work. Also I have a few different messages I use. Let's be real, you get 1747218482 messages a day and what I say doesn't really matter. You're going to look at my pics and decide if you want to reply lol.
You should message me if
I honestly think I could rant on this forever. But if you're looking for a guy who will enjoy your company, understands that a friendship is the foundation for a strong relationship, has the ability to make you laugh through your tears and wants to have a family then what do you have to lose?
The two of us