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My self-summary
Update: Let me start by saying that this profile is as honest as I can possibly make it because I suspect that the majority of males are putting down what they think you want to see. If it wasn't I would change my age! However, I don't look or act it. In fact I'd swear my folks got it wrong as I have to be somewhere in my mid forties if I'm a day!

Now to me. I am a separated father of two great teenage boys looking for the right lady. I am gentle, considerate, honest, and have been told I dont have a selfish bone in my body. I have a great sense of humour and am guaranteed to make you laugh. I am also one of those rare men who has no interest in football, except when Ireland are playing and that's only if I remember to watch the match! I don't expect to meet the right person straight away but in the meantime am willing to make new friends. I took up bass guitar just over 3 years ago and now play with a five piece rock and blues band, Patch 7 (check out our Facebook page!), and have never felt as alive! I love live gigs and would like nothing more than to share them with you. Mind you being a five piece and the fact most venues can't afford us I find myself only gigging occasionally, so don't for a second think you'll never see me!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm self employed and financially stable. Had an amazing experience a few years ago and am finding a lot of surprises in the spiritual side of things so find myself tending that way more and more. One of the gifts I have developed as a result is a very strong intuition, and this has reinforced my belief that there's other influences we can tap into. Now, if they'd just once give me the lotto numbers! Having said that I have no interest in organised religion. Mind you my ex wife always reckoned I was a psychic, or was that a psycho? Hmm.
I’m really good at
Taking care of people. I like to make you laugh and I am a very positive person.
The first things people usually notice about me
My good looks 😁 I wish, though I am easy on the eye. It would have to be my smile I suppose. Having said that I have to be the least photogenic person I know! I just can't seem to take a good photo for love nor money.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - I'm an avid reader. Thrillers and horror mainly
Movies - Has to be Avatar so far
Music - Anything live, but not country and western or opera
Food - Anything that isn't Irish (boring or what?!!)
TV - Don't even own one. I follow dramas on Netflix because there's no ads (thriller style, not Corrie and the likes, ever, not that they're on Netflix).
Six things I could never do without
My kids
My phone
My van (it's a six seater, like a car with a huge boot!)
My business (I'd starve)
Good friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making you happy. Yes, it sounds corny, but from experience that's what I do. If I fall for you you'll be my queen and nothing will be too much trouble if it brightens your day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Chilling, but would love to hit the town with you, or perhaps cuddle to a nice anything really.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You're joking! After all I don't even know you yet
You should message me if
You're really desperate! Or if you're full of life and don't want to watch the grass grow under your feet. Actually, if you like cutting the grass that'll do too (gardening is not my forté). You like long romantic walks on the beach in the middle of the night, chatting through the night on a blanket in a beautiful setting with candles and incense, or in the car with candles and incense if it's cold, watching the moon/stars. Doing things together, regularly, though i know you need your own space too. You like catching a live gig, anywhere, and don't need to get off your head to have a good time. You aren't a prude (a pet hate of mine), willing to take a chance like skinny dipping at night, can be totally trusted to never, ever cheat on me, enjoy a good festival, are equally comfortable roughing it in a camper van or a decent hotel. Aren't ashamed to hold my hand in public, link my arm, sit touching, and regularly cuddle - I'm very tactile and need touch so bad sometimes it hurts! Don't mind me telling you how much I love you, provided we fall in love, regularly, in person or messages when we're apart. I'm of the belief why write a sentence when a novel will suffice (as if that wasn't obvious!) I'm here to find love and failing that new friends. If you're just into hook-ups then please move on. I'm no prude and sex is very important to me, but only with the right person. Knowing men you've a choice of about 95% of the male profiles out there who will gladly accommodate a hook-up, but not this one. And yes, I can be kinky, daring, and anything else you want, but only with the right woman 😊
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