65Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
My interests are varied and I am quite curious. I'm social and nonjudgmental. Gentle and contemplative. Fun-loving; silly to serious. Respectful. Warm and unpretentious. Intelligent. The glass is half-full in my eyes. Nature is a source of wonder and renewal for me. After soul renewal, I go for the cultural stimulation of the city, including great food. I have great friends; close family. Originality and quirkiness attract me.
What I’m doing with my life
I truly enjoy my work. And my play!
I’m really good at
Listening to others, supporting others, enjoying people, baking desserts, hearing musical subtleties, dancing (pretty good), fixing things, solving problems, being disciplined (more or less), being responsible, telling time without a watch, taking care of myself and taking care of others. More? Petting cats, playing with children, calling my mother, finding great restaurants, appreciating good food and wine, and stopping to smell the lilacs. Oh and listening to Johnny Hodges (I happen to be doing that now).
The first things people usually notice about me
Not that people often reveal that information, but my warm, sincere smile gets commented upon.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Whoa: there's not enough room. Ok, just a few through free association. Austen's Pride and Prejudice, The Wizard of Oz, West Side Story, M Butterfly, Sidney Bechet, Johnny Hodges, most fresh, well-prepared food plus all kinds of single origin dark chocolate, rich, smooth, bold complex coffee, and interesting and varied complex wines. Can't forget fresh, sweet, juicy fruit (no, not the gum).
Six things I could never do without
The sounds of beautiful jazz as well as those of other music. The woosh of, the salty, fresh sent of, and the sun sparkling on the ocean. The varied tastes, textures and scents of good food. Much of the beauty and wonder of nature. The companionship, support, and fun of friends and family (including hugs). A good story to get lost in, touched by, and enlightened by through novels and films.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
people who are important to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
maybe having an interesting, delicious dinner with friends or family or watching Monk reruns (I love Monk!) or reading or watching a nabe movie. Mostly relishing the relaxing feeling of having two free days ahead.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My user name just came to me through free-association.
You should message me if
you have sharp intelligence coupled with a kind soul. A positive attitude, an interest in life, and a direction. Curious, fun-loving, yet respectfully serious about the deeper things in life. Warm and down-to-earth. A good listener and a supportive person. Gentle and sensual. Someone who enjoys sharing and independence. Someone interested in developing a serious relationship. Fairly attractive and in decent shape. Too much to ask for? Probably! But, if a number of those qualities sound like you, say hi! (Btw, if we know each other professionally, you are welcome to let me know you saw my profile.)
The two of us