I am looking for friendship first...without friendship, a relationship can't move forward. After the friendship, then dating and beyond if "all the stars align".
Movies: Catch-22, Animal House, Hamlet (Olivier version), The Tempest, The Candidate, M*A*S*H, The Sting, A Man for All Seasons
Music: Jazz, Blues, Rock, Soft Rock, Folk, Classical, World, actually any but Country/Western
Food: Ethnic, especially, Thai, Vietnamese, Japanese, Middle Eastern