45 El Cerrito, United States
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My self-summary
I strive to live authentically and make the most out of life. I am warm, idealistic, adventurous, kind, light-hearted and smart. Not bad, ha?:) All wrapped up in an attractive package :) ...did i mention funny :)?

I am looking for someone that I can have a connection with, a connection that energizes us both.

I am an extrovert but close to the middle of the introvert-extrovert continuum.

The last photo was taken 20 years ago. However I thought you might enjoy it so i posted it :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am in real estate and also a Marriage and Family Therapist.
I’m really good at
Not shying away from difficult subjects or conversations
Finding my way in new places.
Thinking creatively and quickly
Showing up reliably
Sensing and intuiting
Not following the beaten path
Restorative yoga
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends if I am coming or going...;)
my height, my contagious smile and laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Musician: Stew - extra points have you heard of him. I prefer melodic music.

Favorite books: "Middlesex", "If the Buddha Dated"- highly recommended it.
Authors: Robert Johnson (jungian psychologist), Irvin Yallom, Marshall Rosenberg ("Non-violent communications").

TV: Game of Thrones, Scandal, Survivor, Big Bang Theory are top of my list right now. My previous loves include: Rome, Weeds, Six feet under and the X-files.
The six things I could never do without
The Internet... :(
vegetarian food options...
my new view of the bay :)
I will leave the other three things to the people who need more than 6 :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the balance between action and acceptance is.
How to be more present, mindful and kind.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have a lot of interests so i could be anywhere :) I like the theater and improv/spoken word shows like GetMortified.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes, when i am in a store, i will put things in order/where they belong :) does this make me ocd?:)
You should message me if
Major bonus points if you are self employed and vegetarian.

A poem as reward for reading all the way to the end :)

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