idlehandz
39Union City, United States
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My self-summary
What I am:
Artist. Brother. Husband. Father. Lover. Gamer. 420devotee. Musician. Geek. Friend.

Some titles may be scarier than others, but there's no point in "bread & circuses" or trying to "turn dogshit into diamonds" or any other phrases you can think of for justification of superficial appeasement. Life's too short and time is too valuable.

What I'm not:
home wrecker, adulterer, irresponsible. womanizer. bootleg Mormon (yeah I had to raise an eyebrow at that one too) professional unicorn hunter & overall misfit deviant in regards to the sacredness of marriage. These are all the "titles" I've been christened with randomly in my inbox. Damned if your truthful, because Ashley Madison has made a killing on deception.

Bottom line: I love life. Love Family. Love my wife.
We love each other. We also love having a truncated social life. We aren't eyes wide shut sex party socialites. We're live at the BBQ game of dominoes over beers with friends that are more like family. We like making like minded new friends.
BUT (& here's the gorilla in the room), we like women.
I know. I know what your'e thinking: Nature's perfect food right? Sometimes the mrs & I share one like two starry eyed teenagers sharing a hot fudge Sunday at the ice cream parlor or we rock our own waffle cones with our flavor of choice.

I kid. I kid. There is a peppering of truth in the sarcasm though. That's why I'm here. We (Mrs & I) both agree women are fascinating creatures & when you find one who is intelligent, personable & like minded in interests it can make for something special.
Friends with benefits, but friendship is vital. You have to be able to talk, laugh, express, feel.
Too much?
What I’m doing with my life
I do graphic design & illustration by trade & career. Fortunate to have a job doing what I love & put myself in debt for. Yay art school. I enjoy creating. Be it art or dabbling in making music. My kids are taking a shine to creating art & that's made life even more fulfilling.
I’m really good at
Taking in life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd say my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books are once in a while for me, though the iPad has made it easier for me to get my mitts on new reading material. Walking Dead Rise of the Gov was a good read. Movies a plenty. Martian was good. Mad Max kicked ass. Beasts of no nation got robbed for Oscar nods. TV: Walking Dead ( kinda hard not to like that show), Big Bang Theory (Sheldon finally getting laid saved the show for another season). Game of Thrones, Spongebob does get rotation on my tv, Gravity Falls and Rick & Morty has been refreshingly funny (yes I still watch cartoons. I did go to school for animation afterall & so decrees my daughter). Venture Bros is back! Mr Robot is next on my viewing schedule.

MUSIC: My tastes are all over the place. Kendrick Lamar made for a good album this year. Madlib and Freddie Gibbs: Piñata was a good album. Lately the works of Full Crate and Mar have impressed me as well as Detroit's "Tall Black Guy productions" (His beat rework of Sade's taboo is wtf ftw all way round). Some Bibio as well and Ocote Soul sounds, Tommy Gurerro, The works of Farouz, Ennio Morricone's cinema works (mostly 60's era)...list goes on.
Six things I could never do without
Music
Family
Laughter
Peace, prosperity & a little paper.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I've gone from being young and dumb to adult and happily domesticated. Parenting & being a good father. Everyday is a new day & you shouldn't mind making mistakes in life just as long as you can correct them. If you can't, try to stand strong when the dust clears.

Paying Bills

Painting

Why aren't fanta leaves so easy to get in my neighborhood.

Someday beating Super Mario Brothers (yup, never beat it)

Most importantly: Why is that a high percentage of my matches in the North Jersey area are concentrated in Brooklyn?? I love Brooklyn, but I fear it. I fear it because every time I've gone there... "Beautiful Chaos" sums up how it goes down in Brooklyn.
On a typical Friday night I am
With family. On my weekends of freedom. I'm out with friends at the movies, or chilling at their respective "fortresses' of solitude" playing video games, board games, or movie watching, cooking, painting or partaking in the herbal gifts I bring. Concert or show would be option 2
I can be more of a night owl most times. I'm one to stay up late and paint canvas or do digital work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Uhhhhh...
You should message me if
I like a person to feel comfortable with themselves. You love to laugh & collaborate in the kitchen. You read comic books, do art , dig video games, music tastes or want to talk politics, religion or the problems in he world today & wish to formulate a game plan to solve them. You're not afraid of brown people in glasses.

Put this together with a sense of humor, an open mind and the smarts to match & you've got my attention.
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