Artist. Brother. Husband. Father. Lover. Gamer. 420devotee. Musician. Geek. Friend.
Some titles may be scarier than others, but there's no point in "bread & circuses" or trying to "turn dogshit into diamonds" or any other phrases you can think of for justification of superficial appeasement. Life's too short and time is too valuable.
What I'm not:
home wrecker, adulterer, irresponsible. womanizer. bootleg Mormon (yeah I had to raise an eyebrow at that one too) professional unicorn hunter & overall misfit deviant in regards to the sacredness of marriage. These are all the "titles" I've been christened with randomly in my inbox. Damned if your truthful, because Ashley Madison has made a killing on deception.
Bottom line: I love life. Love Family. Love my wife.
We love each other. We also love having a truncated social life. We aren't eyes wide shut sex party socialites. We're live at the BBQ game of dominoes over beers with friends that are more like family. We like making like minded new friends.
BUT (& here's the gorilla in the room), we like women.
I know. I know what your'e thinking: Nature's perfect food right? Sometimes the mrs & I share one like two starry eyed teenagers sharing a hot fudge Sunday at the ice cream parlor or we rock our own waffle cones with our flavor of choice.
I kid. I kid. There is a peppering of truth in the sarcasm though. That's why I'm here. We (Mrs & I) both agree women are fascinating creatures & when you find one who is intelligent, personable & like minded in interests it can make for something special.
Friends with benefits, but friendship is vital. You have to be able to talk, laugh, express, feel.
MUSIC: My tastes are all over the place. Kendrick Lamar made for a good album this year. Madlib and Freddie Gibbs: Piñata was a good album. Lately the works of Full Crate and Mar have impressed me as well as Detroit's "Tall Black Guy productions" (His beat rework of Sade's taboo is wtf ftw all way round). Some Bibio as well and Ocote Soul sounds, Tommy Gurerro, The works of Farouz, Ennio Morricone's cinema works (mostly 60's era)...list goes on.
Peace, prosperity & a little paper.
Why aren't fanta leaves so easy to get in my neighborhood.
Someday beating Super Mario Brothers (yup, never beat it)
Most importantly: Why is that a high percentage of my matches in the North Jersey area are concentrated in Brooklyn?? I love Brooklyn, but I fear it. I fear it because every time I've gone there... "Beautiful Chaos" sums up how it goes down in Brooklyn.
I can be more of a night owl most times. I'm one to stay up late and paint canvas or do digital work.
Put this together with a sense of humor, an open mind and the smarts to match & you've got my attention.