i am friendly, loving, caring, funny, and honest. acc...sn't something that attracts boy or girls to court me. rather, its a charisma which attracts people to mingle and be friends with me. due to my charisma, i have a wide range of friends from those in the adolescent years to adulthood. among the people in my...lowes me to design buildings. i had desired to be a doctor but i'm on a different track-- being a lawyer. i want to be an international lawyer someday. have i mentioned that i also love to paint and sing?
I am cool, confident, and caring indian
I have learned that life is all about experience... we are all here with the same terms and goals... we are in it together come what may. I have also learned that when you hang on too tight to what passes, it hurts where it does not need to... so I move forward no matter what with the fullest heart for this life... I just want to smile and have fun being here!
I love women... they are beautiful caring beings and I refuse to believe that past relationships should change my feelings on that one. Although I am looking for someone like me... someone who loves others as much as themselves... someone who is boundless and real... someone that I can believe in as much as myself, I realize that I need to be accepting of who other people are naturally as well even if we do not fit together. There is no good or bad to me... there just is what there is and that is more than enough for me :) I will never fully understand why people can not just be naturally thankful for the moment of one another's company even if it does not last forever... perhaps a thousand years of human conditioning is to blame for that one! Lol... expectation breeds disappointment... so why expect... just live in the now rather than the illusion of a future that may or may not come to pass... it is so much simpler than stressing about what if... lol!
Well, if I never find that someone in this life who is the other side of our coin, then I will have fun looking... and still meet amazing people along the way. I have an eternity to find that special someone... like a lock and key we will fit... and I am in no hurry whatsoever.
Funny thing... there is nothing here asking me what I am not good at... hmmmm... do I dare... yeah, I do:
I am not good at negatives...I don't like yelling or messes... I like cleanliness because the other says way too much about a person and I don't like feeling the infliction of judgement towards others... and most importantly, I do not like being controlled... trust is something that is given of free will not taken or forced... we either do or we do not... the in between is not healthy for anyone... I am not willing to "put my mind" into something like that, so I suppose I was a bit off... I do have boundaries in that area of life...
I suppose that is why I choose to live alone... I have never found that "perfect" roommate... ROFL... awe well... alone is not so bad either:)
he's really, really good at laughing. :)
so for the last time i am going to write on here, i'm giving it one more month and i am officially retiring myself from the dating game. because that is just what it is a big game to everyone.
did i stutter when i said Honesty is key in any relationship???
you cannot build a relationship on sex, or lies. its just not going to work. why is it that people think that they have to lie about themselves - and for the pettiest of reasons? how does this make me want to still be with you?
Piece or advice: if a man asks you ladies a question, please please do not lie - especially if its something that you dont need to lie about. Lying about trivial shit just doesnt make you look good. it makes me think "wait... if she is going to lie about something so trivial, what is going to stop him when the big stuff comes around?"
i CANNOT build a relationship on dishonesty. everything i have said here is the truth.
You know i am not askingfor perfection. I'm asking for someone to try to represent themselves on here as best as they can.
think about it this way, if you lie to someone and they fall for you - then do you think the love will survive if they cant trust you or if they find out about all the little lies???
sigh.. i am just tired - it seems that women are the same all over the world.
2) Complete Honesty and Realism... Just give it to me straight and let me handle my own feelings... don't try to control them or be unaccepting of them... just let me be...
3) Cleanliness and Organization... don't do well in a chaotic environment...
4) My personal time and space... if you need me then ask, but please accept my need for space if I am not able to be there all of the time... I do not hang around if I have nothing positive to give... so I disappear for a recharge... I need Acceptance rather than Resistance... if we work together we work, but if we don't we won't work ...
5) Invention and Creativity... the spice of a great relationship...
6) My country and how can i make this earth a place for all to survive better
It's a fun hobby
Frankly, we've really only got two things we'd keep at all costs: the 356 year old gold coin that was tikka's greatgreatgrandfather's and my copy of Five watches that my mom special ordered as a Christmas present. The beetle cutting board from Jaunpurr
It would be difficult to give up my farm but I just had an opportunity to buy great equipments so I could grow and process more often and bring gifts for others instead. It's obviously not a huge priority right now (but it would be if I were rich).
Excepting my hypoallergenic down alternative comforter and the items above, I'd jump on the chance to replace everything else in the house. Everything, regardless of sentiment.
What about you?