50Santa Rosa, United States
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My self-summary
well not sure exactly where to start right now.

I am fairly new to the area, and find myself lacking for female companionship be it for coffee and conversations, hiking or off-roading in the mountains, trips to the beach, a night out dancing??? or in to The City ....for now looking around to even see who is here, and we can go from there. if it turns out we would be more than friends, than so be it! ;-) I definitely would not complain.

after some thought..I am looking for both friends and potentially more as well...someone to explore the joys of Northern Californian living be it a simple day at the beach or the russian river, to wine tasting or dinner whatever else may come up..I have an eclectic variety of interests ranging from Aviation(currently working in the industry)to wine-tasting and woodworking....with everything in between from beer-making to jewelry design(metal-smithing with a torch, hammers and casting... not beading..) ;-) ...but havn't done much recently...

I now realize how frustrating this can be be to try to articulate what i want to say, so for now will stop and add more later, but if you have any questions for me, simply ask! I promise i won't bite (unless you want me to)

I am Inquisitive, Intriguing, and Irresistable??? ;-
I’m really good at
figuring out how things work, fixing things. making people smile.
Keeping people around me sane by driving them crazy...;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile, dimples and eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am drawing a blank on this whole media thing...I had been an avid reader most of my life, but had strayed until recently...I don't have any favorite books really, will have to think of this...

80s alternative; Depeche Mode, Bauhaus, Joy Division, The Smiths, New Order, They Might Be Giants, Nick Cave, Talking Heads, David Bowie, Cocteau Twins, Siouxie and the Banshees, NIN, Japan, Blondie, The Smiths, The Pretenders, Aimee Mann, The Cranberries, The Cramps, Soundgarden, The Clash, Chris Isaak, The Dandy Warhols, PJ Harvey, Tom Petty, Prince, Garbage, Beck, the Pixies, Jane's Addiction,Pet Shop Boys, Black Crowes, Radiohead, The Cramps, Primus, Death Cab for Cutie, THe Cure, Minor Threat, Propaganda, Everything 80's, Los Lonley Boys, the Beatles, Reggae, Madonna, Beastie Boys, Clapton, Stevie Wonder, Vinyl, UB40, Pearl Jam, U2, Duran Duran, Chili Peppers, Puddle of Mudd, Yellowman, Jimmy Cliff, Prince, Dead Kennedys, Anything from Les Claypool, Bad Religion......etc...have i repeated???so many many more...all the wonderfull music we listened to in the 80's clubs for so many years before the term Goth was coined!

and than i grew up on big band, classical and such...I really love just about all music
Punk, Ska, Rockabilly, Goth, world, trance, Patsy Kline, and the list will go on forever

I absolutely live for music. Love going out dancing, but just don't do it much anymore...I probably got enough twenty years ago...but like to get out there when i can... ;-)

Food? oh God! I love so much Favorite would probably be sushi? but love all seafood, Thai, French, German, Indian, and well oh so many more...I hate booring bland food...
Six things I could never do without

Sushi for one!
A good book and or good music to listen to
Love(miss that one!)
Amazing food(be it cooked at home or out it is all good!)
Laughter and smiles
stimulating conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My house search than has been going on for almost two years...I am tempted to buy a 30(make that 60! found something interesting!) sailboat and minimalize, keep what i don't need with me at a workshop i am building at the family property...That perfect fixer-upper home with soo much potential will show up eventually...
oh! and where my cat goes when she is is out all night??
On a typical Friday night I am
doing a myriad of things from hanging out with my [cat] watching netflix, to spending time with friends in the city(hmmm! no, that would be a saturday...but not recently) just about anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an open book with no secrets at all! ;-) just ask and i will answer anything! ;-0
You should message me if
you are curious at all...ya nevah know! ;-)

Oh! and as there really is no place for this!!! here is a synopsis of what I am looking for:

well...lets see....trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, cheerful, clean, brave & reverent....oh nevermind that was from
boy-scout days! ;-0
Yeah! I went through all that, I guess it just sticks in your mind.......ok seriously now........Independent, Affectionate, honest, outgoing, intelligent, witty, happy with who you are. Able(and willing) to get up and go at a moments notice. Not particularly interested in organized sports....
Someone who can see past the superficial things in our world. open minded to new things. Has a great interest in culture. ranging from music to different peoples and their own different ways of life. Interested in joining me in my continued [adventure]s through life, taking things as they come.
The two of us