I like my daily walks, working out, The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, opera, classical music, going to therapy, dinners with friends, mindfully doing nothing, people who like to be peaceful, and people who speak directly.
I'm a good person and easy to get along with. I know what my issues are and I don't take them out on other people.
I haven't had a lot of healthy relationships with gay men and I'm hoping to change that. I don't really know what I want, but I at least know that I'm going to steer far, far away from anything emotionally abusive, dysfunctional or unhealthy.
I think conflict, healthy fighting and suffering in relationships are normal and are wonderfully productive. Great things happen to relationships on the other side of conflict.
The older I get, the more I focus on doing things that I enjoy, avoiding people who drain me of happiness, and finding happiness within myself.
If you're interested in taking a look at my writing, you can find it at www.bachho.com The first paper there expresses my naked soul.
2. Allergy shots
3. The beach
4. Nuclear power
5. Sunny weather
6. John Varvatos