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My self-summary
I recently moved to Memphis, and am looking for someone to show me what the city has to offer. I literally just moved here yesterday, make of that what you will :) I'm an easy-going mechanical engineering masters graduate that enjoys literature and art. I would like to check out new attractions and restaurants. I like to joke a lot once I get to really know someone.
What I’m doing with my life
Traveled the country (Miami, Seattle, LA) and Dubai. Lived in hotels for 8 months. Working on long term life improvements, learning new skills like car stereo installation and smart home automation, unemployed by choice so I can follow what's most important in life. I work to live when I do, not the other way around.
I’m really good at
Designing computers, configuring and using software and operating systems, and networking. Researching things for fun or work (I'm the primary author of two peer reviewed biomedical papers). Using my intuition to find the positive and balance in things and possible solutions to problems with which I may not even have much experience. Also, I like interspersing idiotic isles of alliteration when talking. It may sound stupid, but it pleases me. :) I'm also great at having a good time and having the person I'm with have one to remember as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I own $8,000 worth of bondage gear and sex toys including an f'ing machine and electricital devices. I'm an up and coming dom and want to learn. I watch and learn from kink and extreme restraints university. If that sounds like something you'd like to explore, hit me up. I'm not looking for something lasting right now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Research papers. This is what I'm reading right now.

Inception was an awesome movie. Breaking Bad, Jessica Jones, 100, Helix, The Walking Dead, and the Star Treks are good shows. Dark Mirror is the best show I've ever seen, hands down, esp. Season 3, Episode 4. OA is also great.

I like Electronic, Alternative Rock, Classical, and Rap music. DJ Tiesto, Pretty Lights, The Chemical Brothers, and The Smashing Pumpkins are a few of my favorite artists.

Naval oranges taste the best. I would rather eat them than anything else, even if I was dying of a sodium deficiency and there was a can of salt right next to them! Lol.
Six things I could never do without
Meaningful connections to other people
A reason to live
Internet access
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where the time goes and if I'll have kids before 40. Lately, I've been occupied with making sure my day-to-day responsibilities are satisfied.


The best way to get things done.

Human nature.

End of life care and how it is so personalized. It facisnates me!
What dying from Alzheimersis like. I made it to stage 5 during my 8 months wandering the globe before going into remission. Hopefully I have another 40 good years left in me.

Projects of all sorts and sizes, just ask!
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've tried to bump my side mirror off of a semi truck trailer because I was ready to die if my car went under the rear tires of the trailer, I was just tired of existing so long with nothing to dull the pain. I tried to get as close as I could before making contact, but a couple pickup trucks slammed on their brakes in front of me to force me to stop trying to kiss the semi. Immediately afterwards I felt so calm and peaceful since I had been ready for death to take me for some time and its nearness brought me serenity. I felt ice running through my veins, so cold along the blood vessels in my lower arms. The clouds looked pretty out the window too, I never notice them.
You should message me if
You'd like to meet up to talk over a drink. I just want to meet somebody. Also please message me if you know a good place to eat or want to explore bondage and or electricity with the gentlest dominant you'll ever meet. Or if you'd like to hear some of what I've learned about life along my travels.
The two of us