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My self-summary
Native Parisian thrilled to finally call Paris his home, after spending most his adult life in New York, where the grass was greener but made of plastic, and then Recife, Brazil, where it was genuinely vegetal and greener yet, but plagued with stealth stinging bugs :).

I value a sincere, open, joyful and peaceful mind.
What I’m doing with my life
Computer science: software engineering, artificial intelligence, games.

Dancing: salsa, samba, mbalax, zouk.
I’m really good at
Making creative sarcastic jokes

Seeing things from outside the box

Giving and receiving deep, sincere yet down-to-earth tender loving care
The first things people usually notice about me
Sense of humor
High-level of energy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books by Ayn Rand, Wilhelm Reich, Alexander Lowen, Osho, Houellebecq, BM Koltes, Charles Stross, Octavia Butler & Sci-fi in general

Comics by Jodorowski, Bilal, Druillet, Leo, Manara, Mosdi, Dufaux, Bec, Marazano etc.

Movies by Woody Allen, Almodovar, David Lynch, Spike Jonze, Spike Lee, Jarmusch, Solondz, Lars Von Trier, Zulawski, FF Coppola, Scorcese, Kubrick, Ridley Scott

Music: Mbalax (Youssou Ndour etc.) and African music in general, Samba and Brazilian music in general, Zouk, Salsa, Classic Rock (Led Zep, Springsteen, Santana etc.)

Food: Indian, Thai, Mexican and Ethiopian for pleasure, healthfood the rest of the time
Six things I could never do without


A comfortable mattress in a silent room

Tasty but healthy food

A BIG city with nice streets and good public transportation (anything smaller than Barcelona is too small for me)

Dancing (and thus obviously nice music)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is the key to get what you want beyond faith and perseverance?

What secondary benefit pushes so many Parisians into tobacco addiction and all its fully documented abominable consequences?
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing or resting at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Recently happily remarried and yet still openly available for someone new at whatever level of intimacy she would be willing to develop with me (i.e., potentially/theoretically polyamorous)
You should message me if
You live near Paris or you are coming to Paris regularly for you job, or you are coming to Paris on your next vacation.

You go on a first date like I do, i.e., without any specific predefined expectation, just waiting to know the other person to start figuring out what (s)he may turn out to be in your life (a quickly forgotten mismatch? a friend? a memorable fling? or your next deep lasting love?), while hoping to be seduced by a good surprise.

You don't smoke.
The two of us