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My self-summary
I'm a slow burn. I'm awkward and dorky, passionate and animated, silly and careful. I think a lot about communication and relationships and architecture. I somehow manage to get paid to think about the structure of language all day????

I'm both introverted and extroverted. I don't party much, but when I do I like to be in the thick of it, talking to everyone or dancing like an idiot. I like to overhear a conversation my friends are having, wait for just the right moment and interject with the perfect dumb joke.

I'm nonmonogamous and in a committed long-term relationship. Let me know if you want to meet my partner (hint: you do! She's great.)
What I’m doing with my life
mostly watching TNG and wishing i was 10% as rad as Captain Picard
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Italo Calvino's "Invisible Cities".
Margaret Atwood's "Oryx & Crake".
Anything and everything that Christopher Alexander's hand has touched.

Movies: Primer. Nausicaa. Zatoichi. Anything with Janelle Monae.

TV: Orphan Black, Sherlock, House of Cards, TNG.

Board games: Space Alert, Falling, Carcasonne, Puzzle Strike.
Six things I could never do without
Once, my phone ran out of battery while I was driving in the next suburb over from the place I grew up in and lived for 15 years. I had to flag down a taxi and ask directions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how internet ads are destroying democracy. also, nonviolent communication.
You should message me if
you think you can beat me at scrabble
The two of us