jacobs25
32Manhattan, United States
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My self-summary
I'm fairly quiet and introverted, especially at first. I'm also silly and childish in some ways. Its a unique combination and I tend to shine the best one on one or in very small groups. I'm kind of guarded right now but if you worm your way into my heart I will be a friend for life.

I'm pretty together in a lot of ways. I have a real career, I'm self-sufficient, and I live within my means. But I feel like it has caused me to ignore some aspects of my life in order to strengthen those skills. I have a deep need for people who bring out a wild, free and artistic side of me. If you can make me laugh until I sprain my stomach muscles we are gold.
What I’m doing with my life
I uprooted and moved across the country to NYC in January. I seem to go through a big move like this every few years whether I want to or not. I'm moving for work and hope to experience all sorts of growth professionally. But my major goal this year is to be good to myself mentally. To not just cope with life but to really get out and live it.
I’m really good at
I can fall asleep under just about any circumstances. Its pretty impressive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: All time favorites are The Last Unicorn and Vurt. But a secondary goal of mine the last couple of years has been to read more. Jenny Lawson's Furiously Happy was my favorite book last year.

Movies: Also The Last Unicorn. I have to be in a very specific mindset to watch movies these days. Most are just too long for me. Not because of the amount of time spent but because of the length of time it takes for the plot to develop.

Shows: My favorite is probably Game of Thrones. I also like a lot of the Netflix and Hulu originals; Bojack, The Path, Master of None, Sense8. And of course there is always Law and Order, the comfort food of television.

Music: I have pretty wide-ranging taste but I'm sick of everything right now. Suggestions are welcome :)

Food: I'm not too picky. I like most things but it has got to be spicy!
Six things I could never do without
Every few years I end up rewriting this list. Never say never!
1. A purpose / meaningful work
2. Space and time to be alone.
3. Sleep
4. Someone to share experiences with.
5.Hope
6. Freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking period. I tend to mull over both good and bad situations in the past that can't be changed. But since I've been here a lot of my thoughts have been focused on the present. There is always something I have to do or see. I always have to keep moving and keep learning. It's been good so far.
On a typical Friday night I am
So far I've been wandering and exploring. I like just walking around learning all the places in the city.
You should message me if
You need a new friend or want someone to go out and do things with. Maybe you are new in town too or are just a kind soul who likes showing people around. I know OKC is primarily for dating but I've met cool platonic friends here before so you never know!

As for dating I'm open to it, but its not my primary focus right now. Also when I do date I'm into ethical non-manogamy. So if that is not what you are into let's not waste each other's time.
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