67Royal Tunbridge Wells, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
Usually a positive kind of person... I tend to see life a bit sideways... can never understand why people argue, confrontation makes my brain freeze and then I cannot formulate a cohesive train of thought at all. I, come over as highly self confident but shake inside !! I am addicted to Brown Direction Signs. have to follow then just to see whats round the corner...Pat strange dogs and cats in the street, hair colour is given to change without notice. easily hurt, but bounce back pretty quick, not given to sulking, but will with draw to lick wounds. as John Wayne says "Courage is being scared to death , but saddling up anyway ". well why not !! (cant ride though )...but keep on mentally saddling up....!!! I love baking, once did a fabulous cake by reading two recipes at the same time... staggered that it was edible !! given to hurtling off in all directions and then having a panic that I havnt thought things through enough.... But I will sort out my own mistakes , usually with people telling me " I told you so "..... On wards and upwards eh!?
What I’m doing with my life
Finished working in our greenhouses, growing and selling plants, alpines , herbs, but since I chose to make my life pear shaped, I now do house and pet sitting for my living. Meeting new people and pets is a lovely way to earn a living. Kids grown and flown so now its just me... Oh and assorted grandchildren.I love goth weekend at Whitby, also Fortys weekends.... any excuse to be theatrical and have a good laugh ...
I’m really good at
Not much really, Baking !? Talking !? Laughing !? Crying !? Reading !? Learning the guitar and murdering assorted songs.. singing along.... Oh yes Im realy really good at selling plants to the great british public, I suppose because i enjoy people !. Im pretty good at gardening, and , (god I sound boring).... Im a good listener, and I try to be a good friend. ...Well I have some good ones so I reckon I cant be bad..
The first things people usually notice about me
I have absolutely no idea what people notice, smile possibly!? a desire to wear odd earings and scarves ? search me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Terry Pratchett novels, biographys, History books, Old time Hollywood musicals, black and white british classics, un P C JohnWayne films LOVE the Duke. any food will do... except cockles ,squid. mussels. tripe, and kippers. not keen on radishes., and loathe olives.. not adverse to the odd junk lunch...also beautiful well cooked posh nosh.. eclectic really, music.. ahh.... from Meatloaf to Mozart, Big band fortys to boy band 90s... Springsteen to Madame Butterfly If its music I probably love it, or will give it a good go.....!!
Six things I could never do without
My family,, my sense of humour, my dog and cats, my love of books, my photographs, my writing, my friends, my music, think thats more than six.......
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My mistakes.!!! and how I can squeeze into my life all that I want to do.... !
On a typical Friday night I am
Each Friday night is different.. could be working, could be chilling, could be down the pub watching open mike night. could be just going with whatever turns up !!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Im not mad enough to write anything here !!
You should message me if
You feel like it...... and your as weird as me., and if your into winter sports ,, or mountain climbing.. we would not get on ! if on the other hand you are a non judgemental, non homophobic, non control freak, and you are a gentle kind person who suffers fools very gladly, and will put up with a wet cat i bed with you when its been raining. Its a long shot I know. and you love walking in the pouring rain for the pleasure of getting warm by the fire , A glass of good red wine the sun , sleeping outside in the heat of a summers night, laughing at something hysterically but not remembering what the joke was, and be very understanding when I mess up then give me a line or two...
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