29Swansea, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
*Okay so one thing to add to this. I'm absolutely terrible at starting conversations online, and can never think of much to start off with. On the other hand I love to chat about anything and everything and am a very open person, so please if you're Inbterested drop me a message*

I'm a trans woman currently in and open relationship (Wow they actually added that, and I see that pig doing a barel roll too. Joking aside I'm super suprised and happy about the new inclusive orientation and gennder options.) I'm looking to explore my kinky side, but also to have more sex in general. Aside from that im up for making friends particularly people who are quite outgoing. i think I'm mainly attracted to femme (mostly women but the occasional guy) presenting people, though also androgynous and occasionally soft butch. i don't have much concern for body appearance as my preferences( fat, skinny, dont really care) drift all over, very frequently. im almost entirely into women but sometimes find guys attractive. Again femme and quite flamboyant without being too camp; long hair make up; glam rocker types. i also like the odd athlete and often a flair for the theatrical. I definitely have a preference for clean shaven and I LOVE lip piercings on ny gender; and piercings in general except septum ones.

My only previous experiences have been with other pre op trans women. I may have a slight preference for them over Cis women (more experimentation is in order). Its really important for me to get on well with a potential partner and be comfortable talking to them. i would like to be close friends with anyone i was sleeping with.
What I’m doing with my life
Ha Good question! (answers on a postcard pls) I'm trying to figure out what to do with myself and what i enjoy doing. i can tend to be a bit of a hermit if left to my own devices and im trying to push myself to get out and find things i enjoy doing. At the moment lots of vague ideas but nothing too concrete, although I am trying to get into mountain biking. I want to explore my sexuality and kinkiness. I want to sample some of what life has to offer; soo goggles on time for some science!
I’m really good at
Making roast potatoes, knocking things over, picking ideas apart and procrastinating.
The first things people usually notice about me
Apparently my girlfriend assures me that when i smile i have 'cute hamster cheeks'. So in lieu of anything else im going to go with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lots of Sci fi!

Authors i really like include Iain M Banks, Charles Stross, Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams, Sue Townsend. Catch 22, One Flew Over the Cukoos Nest (like the film too).

Films: i like a lot of tarantino, Lost in Translation, American Beauty, Usual Suspects (thinking about it pretty much anything with Kevin Spacey), Seven, Fight Club, Interveiw With A Vampire, Queen of the Damned, Terminator 1&2, Snatch, Lock Stock.

TV: Dexter, Dr Who, Ripper Street, True Blood, lots of quiz shows, British medical dramas, Ghost In the Shell, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, Caprica, Avatar:The Last Airbender, Avatar: Legend of Korra, Daria (seriously can i put that a million times),The Wire, Homicide: Life On The Street, The Thick of it, Dinnerladies.

Games: Vampire The Masquerade:Bloodlines, GTA clones especially Saints Row 2, Max Payne, most Bioware and Obsidian games - especially Star Wars The Old Republic recently.

I enjoy watching rugby union avidly, mainly Pro 12 and 6 nations since i don't have satellite. most people seem to think i have pretty decent insight into the game but im not sure how far you can trust family members, they might be a tiny bit biased :) I spend way too much time ranting about the lack of investment in the women's game., and women getting shafted in sport in general (maybe i should take the sport bit out off that sentence). I try to keep abreast of Rugby League and Premier League football too but i usually end up falling behind.

I used to listen to a lot of music, mainly rock and subgenres, but i like a lot of other stuff; just have not real knowledge in other genres. I'll listen to just about everything except maybe drum and bass, but as to stuff i really like it usually comes down to a few songs per artist, and a few artists per genre.
Here's a few artists where i like a lot of stuff: ACDC, AFI, Bauhaus, Black Sabbath, Blink 182, Hell Is For Heroes, Hundred Reasons, Incubus, Joy Division, Led Zepplin, Marillyn Manson, Metalica, Million Dead, Muse, Nine inch Nails, Nirvana, Opeth, Pantera, Placebo, Pixies, Radiohead, Rage Against the Machine, Richard Cheese, Rodrigo y Gabriela, The Cure, The
Killers, The Offspring, The Strokes, Tool.
(wow if you made it through that you must really like me)

Food wise I'm pretty picky, but when i like something i tend to love it e.g. I adore Indian spice mixes but i tend not to like their curries very much (gah tomatoe!) and the other meals are fairly dry without a sauce. I eat tons of roast potatoes, which i thing I've got pretty good at. Thai food is one of my favorites, also chocolate deserts are heaven. Drinks wise i adore Twinings Original Earl Grey, and i probably drink too many soft drinks.
Six things I could never do without
-The Internet
-Twinings Original Early Grey
-Roast Potatoes (best of all the carbohydrates)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's wrong with the world; very dirty things ;) the million things i should probably be doing instead of wasting my time on the internet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably gaming or watching the BBC IPlayer. Id like to be going out dancing and having a laugh but te friends i used to go clubbing with all moved on :(
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I know waay too much about tabletop rpgs despite never having really played. there are lots of activities and stuff that i'd like to be doing but am generally a bit of an anxious wimp about doing them myself. I would like to be way more fem than i am but im not very coordinated with makeup and such and end up looking like a clown and not bothering.
You should message me if
You are interested in making a friend and having someone to go out with, with similar interests and values. I'd especially if you are kinky and toppy or switchy and live relatively close.
The two of us