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My self-summary
Hi I'm James, I guess I am a little awkward around people until I get to know them. That and a perpetually bad view of myself that will probably make this whole thing sound awful XD So if you want to know me talking to me is the best way, I love to talk and almost never ignore a message...unless its just a hello

I am Pansexual, i dont care if you are a Male, Female, Cis, Trans or none of the above. It is the person that makes the person not their body!

Currently in a relationship but if you want to message me feel free i tend to enjoy talking ^^

Oh if you see me visiting your profile and I don't message you it probably means I couldn't think of anything to say or had to leave my laptop it doesn't mean I don't like you. Heck sometimes I just come over all shy! So feel free to message me if you think we might get on I love to chat.

Frodo: I wish the ring had never come to me. I wish none of this had happened.

Gandalf: So do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us. There are other forces at work in this world Frodo, besides the will of evil. Bilbo was meant to find the Ring. In which case, you were also meant to have it. And that is an encouraging thought.

I have never been a party animal and hate the clubs I have been in. I am normally more comfortable in a quite bar environment or maybe some place with live music as long as i can get what i would call a pint of proper beer.
What I’m doing with my life
Working through a civil service apprenticeship!
I’m really good at
I like to write poetry and am working, on and off, on a book. Other then that everyone who knows me says I'm great at knowing useless facts and absolute @#!$ but hey I guess that's just me.

An example of my poetry


Guitar wields emotion
Drums set the pace
The singer tells the story
And everything falls into place

The guitar speaks of sadness
Drumming slows to agree
The singer fades to darkness
The music lets you see

A women crying on the stair
Her man leaving out the door
The taxi wait out in the street
As the drums lay in a new beat

His suitcase bounces down the steps
The guitar mimics her mournful goodbye
The singer tells this story
And brings a tear to my eye

The music keeps on playing
As the taxi speeds away
The music may stop playing
But the song remains to stay

If you like my poem i would love to hear so! ^^

If you wanna see more i keep the lot of them on my tumblr, feel free to ask about that if you are interested and i can link ya.
The first things people usually notice about me
Ginger haired, fat, socially awkward git sums it up quite well. That and an off kilter sense of humour and not much fashion sense. I do try to be a nice guy though!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
When it comes to books I love fantasy; his dark materials, Lord of The Rings, Hitchhikers and I'm a huge Discworld fan.

My book and my movie tastes are pretty similar but i do enjoy a horror film like Saw, gory mindless violence. There is nothing wrong with a little bit of the old ultra violence~ I tend to enjoy thrillers more then horrors though.

Not a huge fan of reality shows like Gordie Shore or whatever, if i am fully honest i dont watch all the much tv. Used to just spend a lot of time on netflix watching documentaries and stuff untill i cancelled my account.
My usual, i am fall backs are Blackadder, mythbusters and old brittish sit coms. I am a sucker for open all hours, porridge and heck even last of the summer wine!
I will also admit to being a trekkie, live long and prosper!

Music...eclectic but some i love are; Blue October, Panic! At The Disco, C418, Jethro Tull and a fair few more.

I guess from the profile pic you can guess i like food which i do, i also like to cook my own meals when i can. Im a half decent cook specially when it comes to quiche, thai green curry and Bolognese. I HATE McDonalds with a vengeance always makes me ill.

I am also a huge pepsi fan and dont like coke at all, wanna make me happy then get me a can of pepsi max XD
Six things I could never do without
Games, laptop to play them on, friends to play them with, books to read when steam is being crappy, bed to read the books in and tea to drink while doing both!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What to do next, I may not be adventurous but I do tend to get bored of things after a while and am contently looking for ways to have fun and make friends.
This tends to happen when i get tipsy, i will have a cider (normaly only one, yes i am a light weight) and a few hours later when i have naught to do i get up to crazy things like making home made butter or trying to cycle in the dark or looking up recipes to try.
Mostly harmless things unless i see something on sale...then my wallet tends to thin out!
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out on minecraft or torchlight 2 (or more recently terraria 1.2 damn that update is amazing) with my mates from kirrie. Try not to judge me for that but the socially awkward one who doesn't like clubs doesn't get asked out to that many events.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was on Citalopram for depression. I have beaten it though and thank all my friend for their help but people should know i do tend to have dark moods every now and then. I am not bi-polar by any stretch of the imagination but i have suffered from depression since i was 12 on and off and that can scare some people.

Most of my poetry comes from that so if you ask to read more poems, they are not all pleasant.
You should message me if
You're bored and fancy a chat or wanna make a friend you can hang out with online and play games.

I am currently playing a lot of - Hearthstone

I have skype and dont mind giving it to people once i get to know them a bit for voice chats or video if they want.

Also if you know what I am Dave! Yognaut and i have the balls means.

And if you enjoy my sense of humor!


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