jamesgold
24Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
I graduated from UC Berkeley about a year ago and moved up to Seattle in March for a job in tech. I work downtown and live in cap hill. It's a familiar story, I'm sure. I'm very charming and witty.

I like to playfully tease and argue and self-aggrandize. It's how I flirt and show affection.

Got a guitar for Christmas and I'm learning how to play :) Almost got the hang of I Want To Hold Your Hand by the beatles.
What I’m doing with my life
By day, I'm a software engineer (familiar), and by night an overcooked, underseasoned vegetable casserole left to congeal under the sterile office lighting for 3 hours too many.
I’m really good at
I'm sensitive and considerate to the point that the slightest indication of your discomfort on our first date will send hot pulses of self-doubt and regret up and down my spine. Despite this, I rate my self-confidence as "higher than average".

I'd love to help you with your math or physics homework (undergrad only!) if you need it. Nothing brings me more joy than than the spark and excitement in someone's eyes when they finally "get it".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Of those, I'm most attached to music, so I'll just talk about that.

My modern, sedentary, soul crushing lifestyle has afforded me the ability to listen to music for, oh, half my waking hours. Being the beneficiary of a salary that dwarfs my cost of living, I dropped a fat stack or two on headphones, speakers and other audio equipment. I've only recently begun to bite into their delicious sonic fruit. It really is a completely new listening experience.

I gravitate towards chill electronica and hip-hop, but then my all time favorite band is The Smiths, and if you think that says something about me, well, it does.

I was the DJ for my college apartment parties.

I've been futzing around with electronic music production recently, too.
Six things I could never do without
I try to keep my dependencies low.
You should message me if
- You're not looking for commitment. Not ready for that.
- Your idea of a fun date is getting pizza and walking around the city checking out whatever shops strike our fancy. Or going to Ikea and picking out cool stuff to make our places look nice. Or shopping for clothes together (I promise I'm not gay lol).
- This comic resonates with you.
- You are sex-positive
- You like tall, lanky white guys.
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