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My self-summary
What am I looking for? A REAL relationship! I am not here for interludes. I want to be #1 to someone and I will return those feelings.

Please - NO terms of endearment until a real relationship has been established.

I am also wanting a man that lives less than 3 hours away! In other words, no long distance relationships. Do not argue this point with me. Been there, done that! I am not planning on leaving the Black Hills.

I want to be & feel important to someone...just as I will make you important to me. Therefore, I am looking for my primary relationship...my best friend, lover, the main person I lean on & I will support you, too.

I love photography, humor & laughter, thunder storms, HONESTY, movies, riding motorcycles (the trophy on the back!), sports (Auburn University, Atlanta Braves, Carolina Panthers (Cam Newton rules!!!), cuddling. respect, romance, HONESTY, snuggling, disc golf (playing), holding hands, being in nature, Car Talk (may he rest in peace) & Wait, Wait Don't Tell Me - oh - did I say HONESTY?!

English must be your 1st & main language, please.

Also -- due to having asthma AND the fact I don't like the smell of smoke, I cannot be with anyone that smokes...anything at anytime. Sorry -- nothing personal or judgmental.

I'm also honest & blunt - some men can't take it! Oh well. It's who I am -- I'm not a diva, just honest. I'm not here to judge anyone -if you do drugs, that's fine, but I choose not to do them and not to be around anyone that does -- my life depend on this!

I love children but was never able to have any. At my age I have come to the conclusion no kids were meant to be. Therefore i am not interested in a relationship with children under 18.

Speaking of being honest, I am also HSV-2 positive (herpes). I got this from someone who had no clue - no symptoms so please, when you get tested for STD's -- ask specifically for this test - it is a blood test & has to be requested.

I love most music...but NOT hard country & rap.

PLEASE...have at least one picture where you are smiling!!!!! I love smiles & shining eyes. I have pics here, you should, too!!
What I’m doing with my life
Attempting to enjoy each day to the fullest.
I’m really good at
Being open & honest, laughter, talking, cuddling, living my journey
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes & my laughter
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything written by Jonathan Kellerman, most movies other than horror, most music other than profane rap & hard country, Thai & Chinese are my favs - and seafood!
Field of Dreams is my absolute favorite movie, second being Sound of Music, It Could Happen To You...most movies with a happy ending!
The six things I could never do without
Honesty, laughter, love, romance & intimacy, sports (yes, a female that LOVES sports!), communication
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My life, love, happiness and compersion.
On a typical Friday night I am
What is typical anyway?
You should message me if
You are open-minded, love life & laughter!
If you're closer than 150 miles away.
If you will write more than "Hi" -- write something original, something to catch my attention in a positive way, please!!!
If you're willing to ride in my convertible, top down, in the cold (with heat on!!)!
If you know & understand Compersion!
If you know the difference & can use your vs you're, their vs there & too vs two correctly! AND if you use you & not "u" & are & not "r"!!!

IF you're not married.

Also - please have a photo -- I can tell a lot about a person by their eyes!!