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My self-summary
IMPORTANT: 90% of my questions are out of date. Message me with questions if you find inconsistencies.

My name is Lior! I'm grey-asexual, which means I'm very rarely interested in sex. I'm also nonbinary/agender fluid. Ask if you're confused.

Most important thing to know about me: I'm an intersectional feminist. I'm extremely oriented around intersectionality and social justice.

I'm very geeky, as I grew up surrounded by 1980s X-Men comics, a family with two generations of Dungeons and Dragons players, and video games galore. I'm also nerdy, because I'm a huge academia fan. I love school, I love learning, and I want to keep learning forever. I love to laugh. I have a big fixation with horror films. My favorite books are in the genres of fantasy, crime mystery, or historical fiction. I spend a lot of time singing, and I play guitar.

My personality type is ENTJ, if you wonder.

I identify as polyamorous, though I'm more than capable of having monoamorous relationships. I just prefer poly.

My sexuality is fluid. It can and will change.

Writing is one of my passions; I love all kinds. Journalism and historiography are fun, but my one true love is fiction writing. I'd never try to rely on it as a career, because it barely pays the bills (if at all), but writing short stories, snapshot-style prose, and novellas is one of my biggest hobbies. I'm currently in the process of planning my first full-length novel, which is taking a very long time.

More often than not, I'd rather stay home and watch cult classics or play a game of Scrabble than go out partying. I'm not big on drinking, I never do drugs, and I'm super awkward sometimes. I often blurt out things before really thinking, and when you combine that with my brutally honest outlook, I can sometimes say things in ways that make me sound really rude. I try to be kind to everyone, though, and I really value respect.

I have a funny mix of realism and idealism going on. I like to look for the best in people, but I'm also not necessarily accepting and a pushover for people who just don't have great attitudes. I won't make excuses for a person who commits immoral actions, because everyone has good and bad in them. The choices we make, not the possibilities we have, define us. I'm very outspoken, and I'll stand up against something that's immoral or otherwise wrong.

I'm very competitive, and sometimes I let my determination to be victorious get the best of me. I know this about myself, though, and it really isn't something I'm proud of. I'll never enjoy arguments, but sometimes I just can't quit while I'm ahead. It's something I hope my partner can understand and deal with by my side as I grow out of that nasty habit.

Anyway, my ability to be objective lets me step back from a conflict once the fire has cooled and really analyze why the argument happened and what can be done about it going forward. That analysis is really what can help two people grow and learn together; they learn about themselves, each other, and the unit they are as a couple.

In short, I love reading, crime shows, supernatural shows, horror movies, music, dancing, fantasy/sci-fi, comics, and comedy.
What I’m doing with my life
I study Latin literature, history, gender studies, and chemistry at Oberlin College.

I work at my school on our social media team.
I’m really good at
Writing, music, academics, reading, analyzing books/movies/TV shows for deeper meanings, sleeping, RPG video games, board games, puzzles, crosswords
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm really short! I'm only 4'10". I usually wear heels that make me 5'2", but I'm tiny without my stilts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Crime, mystery, fantasy, historical fiction, and sci-fi are my favorites. Specifically, I love The Great Gatsby, The Grapes of Wrath, 1984, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings trilogy, Harry Potter series, Good Omens, Eragon, The Maze Runner, CHRONICLE OF A DEATH FORETOLD (if you've read Chronicle let's be best friends)

Comic Books: Uncanny X-Men (1975-1985, basically most of Chris Claremont's era), Deadpool (2008-2012), X-Men: First Class (2006-2008), All-Star Superman, X-Men (2013 - the one with the all-female team)

I'm slowly getting back into reading comics, so bear with me. I also prefer Marvel comic books over DC comic books for a bunch of reasons I don't want to get into here. (I still love the DCAU though, it's freakin' amazing.)

Movies: High Road, Shaun of the Dead, Dawn of the Dead, 21 Jump Street (remake), Hot Fuzz, X-Men, X-Men: First Class, Avengers, Thor, Iron Man, Captain America, Spider-Man (new and old), Matrix, Inception, The Lady Vanishes, GoldenEye, For Your Eyes Only, Goldfinger, Skyfall, From Russia with Love, Brave, Struck by Lightning, Pitch Perfect, Rear Window, Paint Your Wagon, Lord of the Rings series, Star Wars (the originals), To Kill a Mockingbird, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Life of Brian, Brick, Looper, Zombieland, Zodiac, Mirrormask

Shows: The Walking Dead, Teen Wolf (haha I actually kinda hate this show but it's complicated), Criminal Minds, NCIS, Monk, Once Upon a Time, Star Trek (the original!), Supernatural, Justice League, Justice League: Unlimited, Young Justice, Teen Titans, Doctor Who (Nine and Eleven, though Moffat can go die in a fire), Mr. Bean, House, The Inbetweeners (the original, obviously), BBC Sherlock, Community, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Korra, Eureka, Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, Scandal

Anime: Death Note, Inuyasha, Tokyo Ghoul, Samurai Champloo
DEATH NOTE. YOU WANNA GET IN GOOD WITH ME, TALK TO ME ABOUT DEATH NOTE. And get ready for my queer headcanons.

Video Games: I love all kinds of games, but my favorite genre is RPG. I also like puzzle games, strategy, and horror. My favorite games are Dragon Age (both of them), Mass Effect, Skyrim, Far Cry 3, Fallout 3 and New Vegas, Ocarina of Time, Majora's Mask, Dishonored, Fable III, Silent Hill 2, Assassin's Creed (all of them; Revelations was a dud, but I enjoyed it well enough), Final Fantasy XII, Phoenix Wright: Ace Attorney, Pokemon (Blue, Emerald, and Pearl), and Dynasty Warriors 4, 5, 6, and 7.

Here's a tip: If you're one of those people who insist that Dragon Age 2 is awful and had no good qualities, do not message me. If you didn't like Dragon Age 2, but are willing to discuss the game intelligently and appreciate what it got right, feel free to message me.
This also goes for the Mass Effect ending; I didn't think it was perfect, but I don't think it was completely terrible, and it certainly didn't make ME3 a bad game.

Music: lol if I filled this in honestly and thoroughly we'd be here forever

Food: Italian, Chinese, Japanese, Indian... I generally really try to eat healthy, too. I avoid fried food, or anything greasy.
Six things I could never do without
1. Something to keep me busy. I get restless far too easily.
2. Laptop and wifi connection; for work or play, these are essential.
3. Shoes with high heels; I like to be average height, sometimes.
4. My phone; it's as practical as it is entertaining!
5. Music; it's my emotional outlet and my inspiration.
6. My voice; I love talking and singing far too much to give it up!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, I guess. I like to consider philosophy. I also think about American history, superheroes, dragons, Ancient Rome, mythology, and biochemistry.
On a typical Friday night I am
Vegging out on the couch, to be honest! Unless I have plans to hang out or go out with friends, Friday is my day to relax and recharge from the week. Even out of school, there's still a lot to do during the week, so I get stressed enough that I just want to watch movies, listen to music, read, or be with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm demisexual. That means sex with another person has no appeal for me unless the person in question is someone I care deeply about and trust wholeheartedly. I still do have a sex drive, as I am a human being, and I take care of my own bodily needs. However, if I'm going to have sex with another human being, it'll be after I trust and care for them, not before.

It's not exactly private. I'm very open about my sexuality.
You should message me if
You want a smart, independent young womyn who speaks their mind, loves to goof off, and is nerd enough for plenty to go around!

Also, messages that are just "hello" or "what's up" will not fly. At the very least, try to show me that you read a tiny bit of my profile.

IMPORTANT! If you didn't see this in my Favorite Video Games section...
If you're one of those people who insist that Dragon Age 2 is awful and had no good qualities at all, do not message me. If you didn't like Dragon Age 2, but are willing to discuss the game intelligently and appreciate what it got right, feel free to message me.
This also goes for the Mass Effect ending; I didn't like it either, but I don't think it was entirely terrible, and it certainly didn't make ME3 a bad game.
So basically, Bioware quitters can take a walk. To clarify: "Bioware quitters" are people who abandoned Bioware because they didn't get exactly what they wanted in a video game.
The two of us