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My self-summary
Right upfront: I'm polyamorous. I'm in a relationship, and we both see other people. I'm looking for myself. We're not a packaged deal. If that doesn't sound like something you can handle, that's fine! If you have questions, ask them.

I'm also a bike rider, a home cook, and a great kisser. I sing karaoke to unwind, borrow way too many books from the library, and make terrariums. I've climbed mountains, built furniture, and have been unsuccessfully mugged 6 times.

Sweeping generalizations: beer over wine, beaches over mountains, Trek over Wars, trains over cars, and breakfast over dinner.

About the cat, he's not mine. We just collaborate sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a union. I review contracts to make sure artists get paid right and on time. After hours, I write and design. Working towards setting up a small business.

Someone, some brilliant workaholic, some genius of their craft (Shonda Rimes, I think) said that if you want to make something great you can't be afraid to be boring. What they meant was don't be afraid NOT to go out and party and travel or whatever. You decide you're going to create and that's going to be your adventure.

So, I'm not a hermit. And I get out of town now and then like everyone else in this city. But I'm not loaded and I don't have a safety net. I have a day job and a dream in progress. If you're one of those people who want to see the world and can, or are making it work somehow, that's great. I might go with you. Most likely, I'll be home with a back rub and whiskey for you. I'll want to hear all about it.
I’m really good at
Storytelling, organizing, finding things, making out...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
These change all the time and are too many to list. I'll try to be brief.

I'm currently reading the Jinni and the Golem, and a lot of articles and essays.

The last movie I really loved was Logan. It's okay if you don't like "superhero" movies. I would never force them on anyone. But this one really hit me in the feels.

I'm freaking out over American Gods(!!!), and I'm rewatching the West Wing as a way of coping with world politics.

When it comes to music, a good story is more important to me than genre or personality. So something like Dylan's "Don't Think Twice" is right up there with Beyoncé's "Formation" and Julia Nunes' "Something Bad". Right now I got Lizzo on repeat. "Good As Hell" is ADDICTIVE.

Food: currently craving belgian waffles with ice cream.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Cognitive Dissonance.
Why we should build colonies on Mars.
What I'd do if I won the lottery.
Parallel universes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Being weirder.
You should message me if
If you've ever been called nerdy, kinky, weird, or creative, if you're polyamorous, non-monogamous, queer, or just curious, if you've lived a VERY DIFFERENT life than me but we have things in common --- I want to meet you!

NOTE: Very open to new relationships (so hit me with your awesome date ideas) but right now I'm looking for more friends who are adventurous in bed, or other places (so hit me with your best pick up line). If you're curious, just message me with what you like. Or ask me a question. The worst that can happen is I politely say I'm not interested. The best that can happen is...well, amazing.
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