I'm a skeptic and an optimist. I used to be the opposite, which is Catholic.
I'm polyamorous and GGG. I am in love with someone fantastic, and we both see other people. I'm looking for myself; we're not a packaged deal. (But sometimes we spend lazy afternoons in a tangle of limbs, and it would be nice to have a third set.)
If that doesn't sound like something you can deal with, that's fine! If you have questions, ask them.
Sweeping generalizations: beer over wine, beaches over mountains, Trek over Wars, Elementary over Sherlock, trains over cars, and breakfast over dinner.
About the cat, he's not mine. We're just good friends. I'm actually a dog person. Funny thing, so is he.
Someone, some brilliant workaholic, some genius of their craft (Shonda Rimes, I think) said that if you want to make something great you can't be afraid to be boring. What they meant was don't be afraid NOT to go out and party and travel or whatever. You decide you're going to create and that's going to be your adventure.
So...I'm not a hermit. And I get out of town now and then like everyone else in this city. But I'm not loaded and I don't have a safety net. I have a day job and a dream in progress. If you're one of those people who want to see the world and can, or are making it work somehow, that's great. I might go with you. Most likely, I'll be home with a back rub and whiskey for you. I'll want to hear all about it.
Movies: Atonement, Inception, Avengers, Dogma, 2046, Blue is the Warmest Color, Stranger Than Fiction, Cabin in the Woods...
TV: Stranger Things, Firefly, Sense8, Jessica Jones, Last Week Tonight, Black Mirror, The West Wing, Doctor Who, Adventure Time, Steven Universe...
Music: Childish Gambino, the Eraserheads, Tom Waits, Sara Bareilles, Bruce Springsteen, the Weakerthans, Postmodern Jukebox, Run the Jewels, the Mountain Goats...
Food: currently craving Crispy Duck in Red Curry Sauce with Vegetables and Rice.
Why we should build colonies on Mars.
What I'd do if I won the lottery.
Parallel universes and "What if?" thought experiments.
EDIT: I love that a dating website algorithm thinks I'm "less suave" than average.