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My self-summary
Right upfront: I'm polyamorous. I'm in a relationship, and we both see other people. I'm looking for myself. We're not a packaged deal. If that doesn't sound like something you can handle, that's fine! If you have questions, ask.

I'm also a bike rider, a home cook, and a great kisser. I sing karaoke to unwind, borrow way too many books from the library, and make terrariums. I've climbed mountains, built furniture, and have been unsuccessfully mugged 6 times.

Sweeping generalizations: beer over wine, beaches over mountains, Trek over Wars, trains over cars, and breakfast over dinner.

About the cat, he's not mine. We just collaborate sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a union. I review contracts to make sure artists get paid right and on time. After hours, I write and design. Working towards setting up a small business.

Someone, some brilliant workaholic, some genius of their craft (Shonda Rimes, I think) said that if you want to make something great you can't be afraid to be boring. What they meant was don't be afraid NOT to go out and party and travel or whatever. You decide you're going to create and that's going to be your adventure.

So, I'm not a hermit. And I get out of town now and then like everyone else in this city. But I'm not loaded and I don't have a safety net. I have a day job and a dream in progress. If you're one of those people who want to see the world and can, or are making it work somehow, that's great. I might go with you. Most likely, I'll be home with a back rub and whiskey for you. I'll want to hear all about it.
I’m really good at
Storytelling, organizing, finding things, making out...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
These change all the time and are too many to list. I'll try to be brief.

I'm currently reading a lot of articles on Atlas Obscura and Treehugger for research. I'm also finishing Harlan Ellison's Angry Candy and I'm looking forward to starting Sour Heart by Jenny Zhang.

The last movie I really loved was Logan. It's okay if you don't like superhero movies. I would never force them on anyone. But this one really hit me in the feels.

I loved American Gods. I'm about to finish Game of Thrones. And I'm rewatching the West Wing as a way of coping with world politics.

When it comes to music, a good story is more important to me than genre or personality. So something like Dylan's "Don't Think Twice" is right up there with Beyoncé's "Formation" and Julia Nunes' "Something Bad". I just listened to the Song Exploder podcast about St. Vincent's "New York" and I think I'm in love.

Food: currently craving popcorn. And a bourbon.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Cognitive Dissonance.
Why we should build colonies on Mars.
Parallel universes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Being weirder.
You should message me if
If you've ever been called nerdy, kinky, weird, creative, if you're polyamorous, non-monogamous, queer, or just curious, if you've lived a VERY DIFFERENT life than me but we have things in common --- I want to meet you!
The two of us