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My self-summary
/ Currently looking for a date to go to the places in New York written about in Atlas Obscura. Interested? /

I'm a skeptic and an optimist. I used to be the opposite, which is Catholic.

I'm polyamorous and GGG. I am in love with someone fantastic, and we both see other people. I'm looking for myself; we're not a packaged deal. (But sometimes we spend lazy afternoons in a tangle of limbs, and it would be nice to have a third set.)

If that doesn't sound like something you can deal with, that's fine! If you have questions, ask them.

Sweeping generalizations: beer over wine, beaches over mountains, Trek over Wars, Elementary over Sherlock, trains over cars, and breakfast over dinner.

About the cat, he's not mine. We just collaborate sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a union. I review contracts to make sure artists get paid right and on time. After hours, I write and design. Working towards setting up a small business.

Someone, some brilliant workaholic, some genius of their craft (Shonda Rimes, I think) said that if you want to make something great you can't be afraid to be boring. What they meant was don't be afraid NOT to go out and party and travel or whatever. You decide you're going to create and that's going to be your adventure.

So...I'm not a hermit. And I get out of town now and then like everyone else in this city. But I'm not loaded and I don't have a safety net. I have a day job and a dream in progress. If you're one of those people who want to see the world and can, or are making it work somehow, that's great. I might go with you. Most likely, I'll be home with a back rub and whiskey for you. I'll want to hear all about it.
I’m really good at
Storytelling, organizing, finding things, and making out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: High Fidelity, Good Omens, Reaper Man, Lies My Teacher Told Me, Watchmen, the Old Man and the Sea, American Gods, I Was Told There'd Be Cake...

Movies: Atonement, Inception, Avengers, Dogma, 2046, Blue is the Warmest Color, Stranger Than Fiction, Cabin in the Woods...

TV: Stranger Things, Firefly, Sense8, Jessica Jones, Last Week Tonight, Black Mirror, The West Wing, Doctor Who, Adventure Time, Steven Universe...

Music: Childish Gambino, the Eraserheads, Tom Waits, Sara Bareilles, Bruce Springsteen, the Weakerthans, Postmodern Jukebox, Run the Jewels, the Mountain Goats...

Food: currently craving Xiao Long Bao.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Cognitive Dissonance.
Why we should build colonies on Mars.
What I'd do if I won the lottery.
Parallel universes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Being weirder.
You should message me if
...you want to do things. Especially at the start. Go for a walk, play pool, sing karaoke, visit a museum. Anything other than sitting somewhere and asking questions, job interview style. We can do that later.