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My self-summary
Recently joined up after hearing how well OKC can work from friends in the Polyamory Toronto meetup group. Impressed so far!

-I am not looking for 'the one'. I am open to anything from long term non-primary relationships to just having some fun, and anything in between
-Recently separated, have a girlfriend but am NOT cheating. Look up ethical non-monogamy and polyamory if you don't already know what this means.
-I am bisexual (or perhaps more properly pansexual) hovering about 2 on the Kinsey scale. I tend to prefer women but am open to any gender identification - it's more about the person than the parts.
-I am looking for relatively local to the work-home corridor for ongoing stuff, that means the GTHA and tri-cities. Nothing against all you 'Muricans but too far away! Lol

-if you're the type of person who will end a conversation with four words and a deactivated profile, click the back button now. No really, now. I give and expect civility, even if a deal breaker is discovered.

-I have a kid, girlfriend, and other friends both vanilla and not. Time is limited, so at the moment I am looking to make contacts, friends or more but only on an occasional basis right now.

If any of these major points are deal breakers for you, thanks for reading this far and good luck looking elsewhere! If you're all good with this read on and hope to hear from you!
What I’m doing with my life
-Busy with the daily grind as an IT & Facilities Manager at an SMB in Vaughan.

-Trying to figure out this 'time management' thing!
I’m really good at
-Anything hands-on; woodworking, assembly of widgets, construction etc

-Anything technical; sound systems, computers, software etc

-Point form lists instead of essays!
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't think I've ever asked anyone this. Probably would notice I am rather reserved at first.. but once I get to know you a little that changes. I think...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-Books - I don't read like I used to.. but I always liked medical thrillers and the sort
-Movies - action! If shit is getting blown up, I'll probably like it
-Shows - NCIS (all), Criminal Minds, Blue Bloods, Chicago Fire/PD, Elementary, Mentalist
-Music - top 40, rock, pop are go-to's but there isn't much I won't actually listen to sometimes
-Food - I am not a foodie. I enjoy a nice meal sometimes, but on a daily basis food is just fuel.
Six things I could never do without
-smartphone/computer with the tubes
-my car
-enough money to get by
-sex with snuggles

see what I did there? ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have a horribly dirty mind. I keep it in check until I know someone can handle it.. usually
On a typical Friday night I am
out doing something hopefully.. but sometimes, just sitting around the house wishing I was out doing something..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll tell someone pretty much anything they ask, as long as I believe they can handle the answer.
You should message me if
-none of what I have said is an enormous problem for you
-you are interested in a new friend, occasional partner, awesome sex or any combination thereof
The two of us