36 Goldsboro, United States
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My self-summary
My name is Jay. "I'm So tired of liars and people playing games with love. First of all, I'm Wondering what has happened to the girls that want a good guy. I'm looking for a understanding, down to earth, honest, loyal, and someone I can trust. Someone who will not give up so easy. I'am wanting someone that knows how to and will communicate in a relationship. Living life on lifes terms is hard. Two people taking lifes challanges together as one. Makes life more manageable and enjoyable. Then trying to take it on all by yourself. You have to take the good with the bad. That's life. We can't control it all. No one has ever been told that life was going to be easy. Communicating is very important between 2 in any relationship. It stops you from wondering how they feel. We have to communicate and it makes things so much better and easier cause you will always know were each other stands and you want have to worry if they are truly happy or not. It also helps you become content with one another and staying content with each other is very important to have a very happy long-term relationship. Why do people want to make something that's already complicated. Even more complicated. Iam truthful with my words and I mean what I say. I was raised to believe that a man is only as good as his word. Also to never go to bed angry or still upset with one another. Work it out or compromise before ever going to sleep. Tomorrow is never promised to any or us. So make sure your love knows what she means to u before u ever leave or go to bed. I like to do something everyday if I can. To put a smile on my love's face. Knowing that she's smiling because of me. It Makes me happy. I'am happiest making the one I love happy. Iam more of a giver. Then a taker. I would rather please. Then be pleased. An make her the happiest she has ever been. I want to build a great life with the one that truly loves me. For who I am. Love is a very powerful thing. It was given to us to share with the one we have chosen and time is the must valuable thing on earth. We can't alter time in any way. Don't waste my time. Once its gone it's gone forever. Hearts are broken every day by words that go unspoken. So don't keep your feelings in. I don't lie. My dad was a compulsive liar. So lies make me sick. A man is only as good as his word. I wouldn't change my past problems are trials because that is what has helped mold me into the man Iam today. I'm very happy with who I have become. I'm smart and I'm in good shape. I ride motorcycles. Love them. I got tattoos on both of my upper arms where they can't be seen unless I take my shirt off and one big one thats almost covers my back. I try to go to church regular. I try to do the best I can. I am a guy and i don't mind saying that I do like affection. I'm looking for a great girl that knows at less a little about being hurt and knows about life. I'm one that knows what he has and doesn't have to lose it to know what I did have. I'm a guy that will do whatever it takes when it comes down to it. Today I have no idea why iam single. I'm Not ugly. My married friends wifes tell them they should learn a thing or two from me. I just don't get it. I guess its because I don't approach girls and give them some lame line, lol... You can ask me anything. I will answer when I get a chance but until I find someone truly real. I will remain single because I don't and can't handle playing the games and I hate drama. There's no reason for that nonsense
What I’m doing with my life
Going back to school again. Since I was forced into disability at the age of 25. Do to a motorcycle wreck. I did engineering and surveyed land. I'm wanting to be a drug abuse counselor and Since it's so hard for teenagers. Also Helping by being a very motivated teen counselor in my spare time and speaker.
I’m really good at
Counseling, riding motorcycles
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes, face, body... I get along with everyone. So I seem to attract people
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not to big on reading but by being single. I wouldn't mind laying down and reading a good book together. If i find a good girl and a good relationship. I Have seen lot's of movies lately but would love to take someone out to eat and see a movie or stay in and cuddle up together. I got plenty of blue ray movies here and movie channels. Plus I have Block Buster on demand through Dish network.
The six things I could never do without
"True love"
Tv, car, motorcycle
Happiness and
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future but I know we only have the second we are living n right now. So if I make the right choices. I'll be fine. I don't want to get old and look back n see a lot of regrets of what I didn't do! The biggest thing is that tomorrow is never promised.
On a typical Friday night I am
with Family, friends, at home or at beach
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm freakin sensitive.
You should message me if
If it feels right and you got a chance. You better take it. Lifes to short to worry about what could've been. If u wanna hang out and have some fun getting to know someone new or Meet someone that keeps it real. For any reason u may have. Ask me anything. If your a girl that fits my description of being honest, loyal and knows she deserves so much more then she's had. If you got the answer to "Why people want to make something even more complicated then it already is? Please hit me up and tell me cause I really don't know why people want to play games and tell lies". Sincerely, Jay