jayurbzz
29Cape Town, South Africa
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My self-summary
Life is the etching away of culture's monochromatic paint job to unveil the colorful masterpiece of who we truly are: always expanding, blemishes and all. I'll see it in you and you'll see it in me.

I go back and forth between a beard and no-beard. I've lived on a trio of continents for extended periods of time and have traveled fairly extensively otherwise in not-so-extended periods. Right now I spend most of my time between Hawaii and the west coast of the USA--for about half the year, and I'm traveling for the other half. I'm probably just passing through your city; I love meeting new people, I thrive off human connection in all forms.

I love to love and be, let love and let be, and I don't attach expectations to my interactions (been there done that--would make for a tough life as a traveler, indeed!). What that means is: I want to know & explore you, allow you to be your truest, fun-est, most excited self. And I'll be the same. It'll be an adventure for both of us.

For myself I believe in constant growth and evolution. It's a blessing and a curse because life is never boring, but it's also incredibly challenging.

♓️☀️ -♊️🌜-♍️☄

I'm currently in Côte d'Ivoire on a video project. I'll be in Vienna the second week of August. Cape Town by mid-late August.
What I’m doing with my life
It's been a decade of life on the road, I confess to be a recovering backpacker/digital nomad/vagabonding yogi. I don't hide from these parts of me, and I'm still all of these things, but in order to accomplish my artistic (and professional) goals it's now time to settle down somewhere and make some roots (to bear some fruits).

Professionally, I am a social entrepreneur and filmmaker. My years of traveling has evolved into a project to digitize a network of communities around the world, initiating children's cooperative creativity workshops along the way. Changing the world starts with the youth.

Artistically, I've just released my first film (a travelogue in Nepal), self-published my first book of travel memoirs (living in Bangkok), and am writing my first album (new age country music). I play lots of guitar, accordion, and piano.

And yeah. With the smallest amount of plans possible, I'm more or less always on the go. We call it the flowgram.
I’m really good at
Hodling my ETH (that was not a spelling error).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Mingus, Hines, Dizzy
Bonobo, Quantic, Emancipator
CloZee, Phaeleh, Logistics
Strung Out, Face to Face, A Wilhelm Scream.

Silicon Valley, GoT, Mr Robot

Moana

OSHO, Baudrillard, Derrida, McKenna. Neil Stephenson, William Gibson, RR Martin, Jeff Noon. Robert Heinlein.

Cumin, turmeric and gluten-free pizza.
Six things I could never do without
This either comes out too plain or too arrogant-new age-sounding, so I'm leaving it blank.

Oh, and Snapchat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Perception and my inner workings. How I can choose to be my problems or rise above them and watch them all return to their pure source. We're just reality filters for all sorts of energy, man. 🌀🌀🌀
On a typical Friday night I am
Lol. I always lol.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm starting a meme Instagram account because an important part of me honestly feels fulfilled by internet memes.
You should message me if
Let me preface this by saying I live my life in the flow: definitions I set in writing may not always materially manifest as such. I try to remain open to that fact. That said, you should message me if:

You take care of yourself, mind and body. You try to be aware of yourself when interacting with others on an intimate level and you are on a path of self-growth.

You know COMMUNICATION IS KEY.

I take very seriously the partners I choose to connect intimately with/through/as... I choose the infinite experiences capable through true unconditional love, as opposed to the stagnant pseudo-existence founded on attachment and boundaries.

I have generally been polyamorous based on the nomadic pattern of my life. Not necessarily by choice, but I'm always looking to explore new realms and realms manifest as human beings all the time. I am open to transformations, however, and I don't want to restrict myself or my partner to anything. Let's be free to be free together.

I want you to feel amazing around me and I want to feel amazing around you. No one should waste time with anyone who doesn't bring out the best in them.
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