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My self-summary
Oh boy....here we go, always hate this ....Dont like to "expose" myself in these things...always seems like I am trying to blow my own horn.....
I believe I owe a lot to the fact I was fortunate enough to have a parent in the military. It gave me a better understanding of the world we live in, and the folks inhabiting it. I have been told I'm not a "normal" male by a number of females in my life...I think they meant I don't fall into a lot of the normal male thought processes, or behavioral patterns. I'm shy and soft spoken until I know which way the wind blows, and can adjust to fit, when necessary. I'm not into sports too much, while I watch a game or race occasionally, not a "pastime".I don't "bond" well with other males, so no fearing the poker nites, or "out with the boys"
Some say I like to be the dominant partner, but I can take that or leave it...I'm more concerned about the happiness and well being of my partner, in most things in life. I have been called a teacher, confidant (I can keep a secret)and an "enabler" (someone who enjoys making situations possible for another), and someone "special" or a "catch" (by a number of females past and present.
This is not to say I am anywhere near perfect..I'm sure some see faults in my personality, and if pointed out to me, and deemed important, I will still attempt to rectify the situation. I stand by my friends and past partners now. When I was young and stupid I had cheated on my first wife...but to this day she and I are friends. I will do anything possible to aide and care for those that enter my "inner circle", and when I say, "I will be there for you", I will.
I think I have been unemployed for a total of 6 months since I was old enough to work at 14, but it took me a while to get ahold of my finances....so I'm not the millionaire I wanted to be. Early in life, and after a frugal upbringing, the phrase of "its only money" equaled live paycheck to paycheck....but thankfully I got over that, lol. Not rich, but not uncomfortable either. Own the house, a cpl vehicles,couple of bank accounts and an underfunded 401(k){Blaming the 3rd wives education for that one!}
What I’m doing with my life
While I work 50/60hours a week, I still enjoy spending time with those special in my life....Would really like to find someone to spend some extended high quality time with.
That and maintaining a home and the relationships I have fostered over the years.....
I’m really good at
Listening, understanding others,I have a ability to place myself in another's shoes and understand where they are coming from,and help them get where they are going.
Conversation...if its a topic that interests me.I can hold up my end of most conversational topics.
Helping others,
Being there...
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on which way I'm facing....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Used to read a lot, when time permitted....sci-fi, mystery, espionage, then along came the computer...eclectic tastes in most things in life...food, music (well ,rap not so much), entertainment and activities.
Six things I could never do without
Water, Air, Sustenance,Good Company,Closer Good Company,
and yes, sex...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The next "Step"
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with friends, watching a movie.
Hangin at home puttering in the garage...
Missing the cuddling with a special person in my life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book, ask me....hope it wont shock you...
too much...;)
You should message me if
I guess if you find anything of interest, or have a question you would like to discuss....or if you desire a more personal interview...;)
(Oh, and the casual sex thing....well there has to be a connection of some sort)
The two of us