jemgrl
31 Honolulu, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a pretty down to earth girl, who loves the great outdoors & finds her passion in the arts. I'm also more of an over the phone person than a texter. I love getting to meet new people and enjoy learning from them. I prefer to talk on the phone or meet in person I find that connection to be much more memorable.
What I’m doing with my life
I work daytimes at a bike shop & nights at a local theatre. I also work weekends doing office work, yes I'm a workaholic. I tend to fill up my spare time cleaning, biking, or searching for a new hike (I find all three to be soothing). I would love to take future classes in bartending & massage therapy. I also have always been interested in psychology & studying the criminal mind.
I’m really good at
My hobbies include Hiking, Biking, & Camping. I also love to paint & find dancing liberating. You can always find my nose buried in a book or two. My ultimate joy is being involved in theatre, just seeing a show brightens my day.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically it would be my red hair & voluptuous figure. I'm at 170lbs, size 12 pants, DD 36 & bike twice a day so I'm pretty curvy. Beyond that I'm a very loyal & understanding person. I'm also very busy & I like to stay active. I'm easy to please in life & my greatest flaw is being too trusting. I have a positive attitude & I'm full of patience.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Religion: Science based (Casual Atheist)

Politics: Democratic based (Liberal)

Books: Dark Tower Series, IT, The Tempest, Portrait of a Killer, Rant, The Stand, Slaughter House 5, The Pillars of the Earth, Wicked, The Count of Monte Cristo, 1984, Call of Cthulhu, The Devil in the White City, Everything is Illuminated, The Taming of the Shrew, Good Omens, Night, The World According to Garp, & Game of Thrones. My most recent addiction is The Night Shift by Stephen King.

Graphic Novels: Transmetropolitan, Saga, Copperhead, Rat Queens, Daytripper, Order of the Stick, the Sandman, Manifest Destiny, the Wicked & the Divine, & Sex Criminals.

Plays: August: Osage County, Bloody Murder, Reindeer Monologues, Noises Off & 49 Steps. My favorite would be Equus & I could go for any show at the Shakespeare Festival.

Musicals: Hair, Ave Q, Wicked, Rocky Horror Show, Rent, Headwig & the Angry Inch, Next to Normal, The Book of Mormon, Hamilton, Young Frankenstein, The Toxic Avenger, Last 5 Years, The Addams Family & In the Heights. My favorite is Spring Awakening which is a musical masterpiece.

Movies: Boondock Saints, Pulp Fiction, Snatch, Scarface, Nightmare Before Christmas, Monty Python, Labyrinth, Princess Bride, Forrest Gump, The Crow, But I'm a Cheerleader, Castaway, Inception, The Goonies, Reservoir Dogs, Losers, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Kill Bill, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Serenity, Fight Club, Road to Perdition, Across the Universe & August: Osage County, Rock of Ages. I'm a closet horror movie fan, at the moment Cabin in the Woods is sitting in my DVD player.

Games: D&D, Magic the Gathering, Munchkin, Cards Against Humanity, Apples to Apples, Poker, Werewolf & Betrayal at House on the Hill. I'm a dork, deal with it.

Comedians: Eddie Izzard, George Carlin, Bill Hicks, Richard Pryer, Carol Burnett, Iliza Shlesinger, Joan Rivers, Lewis Black, Ellen Degeneres, Mick Burbiglia, Chelsea Peretti, Lucille Ball, Jim Carrey, Joy Behar, Sarah Silverman, Trevor Noah, Margaret Cho, Chris Porter, Chelsea Handler, Whoopi Goldberg & Dr.Horrible's sing-along blog. Tim Minchin is my latest favorite.

Music: Beatles, Eagles, Queen, Pink Floyd, Michael Jackson, Bob Marley, Sublime, Tool, NIN, Journey, Foreigner, Blue Swede, Fleetwood Mac, Janis Joplin & that's just the classics. This list could go on & on, I couldn't live without music.

Sports: Biking, Soccer, Pool, Dance, Disc Golf & Hockey.

Food: Italian, Thai, Mexican & Pho.

T.V.: Daily Show, Colbert Report, SNL, Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Wentworth, Last Kingdom, Stranger Things, Bob's Burgers, Breaking Bad, Dexter, L-Word, Orange is the New Black, Buffy, Shameless, Xfiles, Fringe,Parks & Recreation, Blacklist, Firefly, LEX, Battlestar Galactica, Portlandia, Dead Like Me & Carnival. I will admit to loving So You Think You Can Dance.
The six things I could never do without
well beyond your basic needs, family, friends & my cat of course
My BIKE :)
Art
Dance
Music
Books
Mint/Ginger/Licorice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what new hike I wanna do or where I wanna go biking
On a typical Friday night I am
At the theatre 😆
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you ask I'll tell. I live my life out in the open & don't keep skeletons in my closet, actually I don't think I even have a closet to keep them in.
You should message me if
First of all DON'T message me if you're supporting Trump, I'm not extremely political but I can't agree with his dangerous views & there's no way we'll get along if you support them. When I say dangerous I don't mean something sexy, he plans to make America into a dictatorship where his word is law & that really scares me. On a lighter note, I'm on here to broaden my friend circle & to meet new people. I'm always looking for people to go hiking or hit the beach with. I'm NOT looking to have a threesome or to experiment with my sexuality, I did that in my twenties. I know who I am & I want something monogamous. I'm NOT looking for a hook up or one nighter & I'm NOT looking to start a family, I just hope to find a companion to spend my life with. Chemistry is key but the things that attract me to a partner are communication, a witty sense of humor, patience & a logical/realistic outlook on life. I don't expect to find that perfect someone in a single night either so the first time I meet someone from OKcupid it is strictly a hang out. It might develop into something more through out the night but I don't consider it a date until I get to know the person behind the profile. If you wanna know more just message me with a question or two 😀
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