My friends say that I'm dedicated, nurturing, funny, a free-spirit, charming, independent, energetic and compassionate. I think I'm a nice who will always have a lot of work to do on themselves and always willing to be with someone who is too.
I'm ENFP and that means I'm pretty intuitive and always reading between the lines with curiosity and energy. I tend to view life as a big, complex puzzle where everything is connected, seeing it through a prism of emotion, compassion and mysticism, and always looking for a deeper meaning. I'm sensitive and I see that as an incredible strength and not a weakness. AKA I have a little "sparkle of madness".
WTF does that mean for you? On a superficial level it means being tall and/or heavy, and being affectionate and complementing. Sexually, we'd be exploring the physical with creativity and passion, seeing booty-time as a chance to express feelings, sharing love and affection and sometimes just getting right down and dirty. Someone who knows or wants to learn that relationships are in all ways mutual – mutual interest, mutual growth, and mutual responsibility – and can remind me of that when I falter. A strong personality is great (whether soft spoken or not) so you can backhand me back into place when I act the fool. Not everyone can handle the excitement, occasional neediness, and emotional ups and downs that sometimes pop up with me, but if you can you're in for something that is truly unique and fulfilling. If you don't fit this description don't be afraid to write me and hopefully don't take it personally if I don't write back (even though I might not think we're a match, I wish you well in the world, in love and all things).
Once we're serious, I'll be uninhibited and unshakeable in my devotion to the person to whom I've committed myself.
Friends, relationships and understanding the big picture are the most important things in my life. Sometimes I remind myself of that by travelling forward in the future to have a conversation with my death-bed-self (in the sans zombie-apocalypse version of the future).
Books/Authors: Margaret Atwood, Tinkers, The Hunger Games, Dune, Steven Erickson, Status Anxiety, Cradle to Cradle, A Pattern Language, The Divine Feminine Fire, A Fine Balance.
Food: Everything... but love Tibetan, Ethiopian, Indian and french food.
Music: Arcade Fire, The Morning Benders, Deerhoof, Deerhunter, Beach House, The Weeknd, Bahamas, Florence and the Machine, Lykkie Li, Battles, the Avalanches, Bon Iver, Breakbot, Caribou, Grizzly Bear, The Department of Eagles, Sufjan Stevens etc.