jessiodh
65 Dearborn, United States
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My self-summary
UPFRONT, TO AVOID SCAMMERS AND TIME WASTERS, YOU MUST BE AT LEAST 50 YEARS OLD, NOW BE LIVING IN SE MICHIGAN, AVAILABLE TO MEET WITHIN A FEW WEEKS AND COMMUNICATE HERE OR ON THE TELEPHONE UNTIL WE ACTUALLY MEET.

Looking for a real person? I am. Looking to become friends allowing the relationship to grow. I do not demand time (I know you will have the time if you are truly interested).

I enjoy companionship, live theatre, music, movies, picnics, being home, cooking, reading, relaxing, intelligent conversations, coffee, tea, wine, excellent food, gardening, socializing, water balloon and snowball fights and dancing in the rain!!

YOU might be the man I am looking for if YOU ARE; settled, reasonably healthy and mobile, have an open mind, are in charge of your own life, fiscally responsible and solvent, can stand on your own two feet, are intelligent, confident, addiction free, literate, honest, reliable, kind, conversant, loving and are looking to share at least some of your time with your best friend.

I have one grown and very successful daughter, no baggage, and I like a happy life (I don't do drama)! Family, friends and colleagues say I have the energy and attitude of much younger people, a sunny disposition, am easy to talk to and be around, am intelligent, worldly, accomplished, attractive, kind, curious, thoughtful, stylish, generous, funny, a loyal friend, socially astute, well educated and well mannered, earthy, independent, optimistic, confident, competent and reliable. Can be ready to go anywhere informal in 15 minutes flat! I know what they think because I actually asked them!

Well travelled (nationally and internationally), have lived and worked overseas for 17 years of my 30 year career.

5' 2," size 10-12, with lake blue eyes. I am as comfortable in dresses, skirt suits,"after 5/formal wear" and heels (and I own and wear them), as I am in jeans and t shirts. I look and act at least a decade younger than I actually am (NOT vain, just blessed).

Do not need/want validation from others or from just any relationship. I am already a happy, well adjusted, whole person. A partner and last love is what I want. I am a one man woman, looking for THE ONE who will choose me.

Blessed with all the worldly goods I need or want. I am looking for life elements that are hard to find and cannot be purchased at any price; friendship, mutual emotional support, connection, love, companionship and trust.

Relationships like Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward, or Ronald and Nancy Reagan (their relationship) come to mind.
In an interview with actress Joanne Woodward, during which her husband, Paul Newman's, "handsomeness" became a topic of discussion, Joanne said, "Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be with a man who makes you laugh every day, ah -- now that's a real treat."
What I’m doing with my life
Retired and loving it!! And, of course, I spend time looking for you, too.
I’m really good at
An amazing array of things...expert researcher, conversationalist, writer, gardener, my career as an international programs specialist, an IT security planner, a management analyst and an ISO quality manager are some of my work accomplishments with national awards for my original diversity programs. I am well educated, well read and extremely civilized. I dislike negativity and drama. I am told I am fun and funny. I LOVE learning and growing as a person. Looking forward to what I can learn from and about you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am told that people are drawn to my openess, kindness, tolerance, smile, conversation, laugh, blue green eyes and warm presence. I live by the adage "People may forget your name but they will never forget how you made them feel."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love live theater, art, dressing up, books (mostly nonfiction), movies, music and food.
The six things I could never do without
My family, friends, home, gardens, peace and tranquility,

Running a close second are delicious food, (love to cook), fresh cut flowers, corney jokes, great conversations (and a good laugh).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to find you -- a genuine man who chooses me and makes me feel cherished, as I will you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Now retired, (living a six Saturdays and one Sunday life), no day of the week is typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a really good person, deserving of a really good person in my life. "Hooking up" or "Desperation" definitely don't apply here, I have immense self respect and hope you do too. I hope a woman with self respect would be a real relief to a strong and smart man, but it is also intimidating to some.

I am exceptionally proud of my career, who I am, the life I have been privileged to live (in the past and presently), and the great integrity with which I live me life. These truths make it is very easy for me to be both honest and authentic. Hopefully, you are too.
You should message me if
YOU FIT THE VERY SIMPLE CRITERIA IN THE FIRST PARAGRAPH IN CAPS, ABOVE.
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