jham123
52Tustin, United States
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My self-summary
(Update 3/4/17: The three pics are from an OCregister article that featured me on March 31st)

Ladies, if you get a message from me and there is no chance we are going to date, just hit the "BLOCK" button right then and there.....that way I don't see you, you don't see me...and off we go to greener pastures. Trust me, I won't be offended....that's just the way humans are...

Blah blah blah me me me...it really doesn't matter what I say here....if you don't like my Pics, nothing happens...no amount of words are going to change that.....Hello to all of you that think I am cute enough to say Hi to!!

I grew up in Texas and have been here since '88. Landed in Huntington Beach and lived there for years. Lived in Irvine for almost 17 years. Now in Santa Ana in a Flat that I built.

Funny how this works, all the 55 yo women send nice messages to the 50 yo Men while ignoring messages from 62yo men, then, the 50 yo men ignore them and message all the 42yo women and they ignore the 50 yo , yet, at the same time messaging the 36yo guys who ignore them...work your way down the food chain till you get to the 18-20 year old guys....they are all contacting the 55 year old ladies in hopes of finding a Cougar.......it's puzzling. (I don't ignore anyone that contacts me, I am just being humorous with that whole paragraph, don't think I am a snob)

I play guitar for fun and as a hobby....I have a demanding career, I like to relieve the stress.
What I’m doing with my life
Working on my career, balancing with it with my kids and looking for a new companion in life.
I’m really good at
Being supportive and none judgmental of others. People are always open with me and they surprise themselves with what they share with me......no sure 100% why, I just know they feel comfortable and they start to share.
The first things people usually notice about me
My southern Draw (originally from Texas), my polite manners.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
First cut is the deepest, so after all these years "There and back again" (look it up) is still my favorite trilogy. Favorite movie, Has to be Back to the Future. That movie just captured me back when I saw it in the theaters.
Six things I could never do without
My kids (number 1 and always will be)
Hair Bands
Guitar collection
a hot-rod to wrench on
Football season
Soccer season
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Is there just one thing? Step in my head and see the Thousands of things swimming around in there....
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually going out doing something fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
4/16/17: It's always interesting when a new date is going sideways in that, as time passed, I realize that if this or that date doesn't work out, there is a steady stream of online potential signing up every single day. If someone is treating you with indifference, click, click, click away until you find just the right match.
You should message me if
If you like to go to concerts and/or comedy clubs. I love the Pacific Amphitheater and Irvine Meadows.....the Improv is just down the street from me and great comedians are performing weekly! Let's go! Sadly Irvine Meadows is gone but there are TONS of other venues to take advantage of.
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