54Nashville, United States
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My self-summary
I am one of the funnest and funniest men you will ever meet. I am insightful and can almost always tell when you need advice or just a reassuring hug. (I doubt sincerely you'll find ten other men on this site that can do that). I have goals and aspirations but not a one of them is for material things; so if a big house or an expensive car are in your personal must have list then we won't be a match. I work to live and though I try to improve myself everyday, I have no aspirations to be more than the best I can.

I am a great and generous friend and lover and will love, honor and cherish my partner whether we are married or not until death do us part.

I know what I want in a partner and I do not need barbie to make me happy.
What I’m doing with my life
I work Customer Service for one of the Big Wireless Telecoms and I LOVE IT; The people I work with are great and my boss is awesome and my customers are alot of fun too. Helping my boys become good men. Just starting to get back to where I was before the economy tanked. Right now I am about 90% homebody 10% man about town; but going out alone isn't as much fun as sharing time with a special someone. When I have that special someone in my life though I'm still not going out all of the time. I enjoy quiet time 70% at home and 30% going out.
I’m really good at
Making people smile and Laugh! Just about anything I set my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sense of humor. And how much I resemble that guy. You know who I mean, right?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I've read most of what I enjoy Tom Clancy.

Music: I'll listen to anything and everything but love 80s/90 HR/HM/Hair Bands. I like Big Band Jazz like SKO and CBO and cool jazz like Grover Washington Jr and Pat Metheny. Do wop from the 50s. I prefer French or German Baroque to Classical or Impressionist. Not real big on Cage, Glass or Berg.

Big Surprise Tom Clancy Red October (by far Alec Baldwin was the best Jack Ryan), Sum of All Fears, Patriot Games, Clear and Present Danger. I'm still kind of hoping for the release of Splinter Cell. And other typical guy stuff Avengers, Batman , Bourne Series, James Bond etc...

TV: I'm Cursed every time I really like a new show they cancel it. I Like reruns of NCIS, CSI, CSI NY and Bones. You know? I should start watching Nashville all of the time and maybe they'll cancel it and I won't spend 45 minutes driving 9 miles every morning LMAO.

I am wanting to try Thai; I never have. I love Italian, Chinese, Japanese, French, BBQ, Cajun.
Six things I could never do without
My Sons, My ability to maintain my sanity through humor. God, Food, Water (hot and strained through pulverized coffee beans is good too), Shelter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about my boys and their future. I wonder if there's actually a woman out there (over 1 million in Davidson County) for me? A woman who wants a funny guy who is actually descent and honest; although is also a man who will never win People's sexiest man alive or Forbes richest man alive. At least not in the same year anyway.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my sons or with my friends or both. I know sounds boring right? Well I used to be a professional musician (actually I used to make a good living at it) but it is SO REFRESHING not to have to go to a bar on a Friday Night. Especially given the fact that I drink like once or twice a year.
Also I am enjoying the 2nd of my 3 days off in a row every week. I love being off Thurs, Fri and Sat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
10 years ago I was agent 008. Oh that and my name really is Jim it's actually part of my screen name for a reason. Pretty cool huh?
You should message me if
1) You are not pulling a Ghana or Nigeria Scam.
2)Live withing 30 miles of Nashville I am not doing long distance anymore have you seen how much gasoline prices lately.
3)You are over your ex or last BF and will not transfer his shortcomings onto me.
4)You are over your ex or last BF and can go the whole 1st date/meeting without saying his name more than twice (unless it happens to be the same as mine).
5) That you go into this open to the possibility that it may lead to a Long Term Relationship (my being optimistic doesn't mean it has to lead to anything....I'm just an optimistic guy).
6)And probably most important You have to able to laugh and want to have a good time.
The two of us