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My self-summary
I’ve always defined myself by my work. Being that I’ve done everything from a cook, salesmen, installer, manager, and much more there’s always been restrictions or standards that I had to live up to. Now that I’m the boss it’s completely different. There’s something that is so refreshing that it’s almost impossible to explain. I am finally able to do things and live life like I never have before.
Like I said I generally work over 55 hours a week, but I try to keep certain days to myself on a weekly basis. I believe that no matter what life offers you- you need personal time away from the day to day. So I try to keep my weekends free no matter what. On those days of I can be doing anything from visiting family, spending a day in P.A, A.C, Shopping, Going to the movies, a cabin in the woods, or a day of cooking dinner and Netflix. When I get bored or aggravated I have been known to fill the tank with gas, get an extra-large French vanilla Light extra sweet coffee, a pack or two of cigs, GPS, and begin to drive. I don’t need any place in particular to go. I just go. I’ll drive until either my coffee gets cold or I get tired of driving. Then I’ll set my GPS for home and head back. FREEDOM!
Now the things that I enjoy doing in my time away from work are great to blow off steam and clear my head, but at the end of the day they all lose a little something doing them alone. All of my friends either have families or careers at this point in their lives. Which I respect 100%. There’s nothing better than to have a career or another person to build a life a life around. I had both of those before. Now that my career which is my own business (sarcastic sneer) afford me the time and resources to do what I want, it’s hard to rely on my friends to be able to do the same. That is why I’m here.
I felt the need to prioritize my life. So all the people that I dealt with on a regular basis I sat down and realized why they are in my life. I have friends to watch sports with, to talk about cooking with; go to dinner with, and so on. So I realized that I needed more people in my life to add in between the times that I have free time and others are busy with their own day to day work or whatever life offers
What I’m doing with my life
I’m in a transition point in my life. On the cusp of being 30 I decided that I was getting tired of the day to day to a 9-5 of working for somebody else. So I quit my job and started my own business, and ever since I couldn’t be happier. I have finally afforded myself the opportunity to do what I want when i wan and how I want. I finally understand the meaning of work hard play harder.
I’ve lived on my own working at least one full time job at a time consistently since the age of 15. I understand the meaning of hard work, but never felt as though I reaped the rewards. Now that I work for myself I can pull a 70 hour week only to disappear for weekend to clear my head and get ready to do it all again. The funny thin though is that IM ACTUALLY HAPPY. For the first time in a long time I can say that.
I’m really good at
If I’m going to do something, than I might as well do something I enjoy or want to do. If it’s something I want to do or enjoy doing than I better do it right. So I take pride in everything I do.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m quiet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There’s so much...

Books: A song of ice and fire, I got halfway thru shades of gray (I got bored with it), anything Stephen king especially the dark tower or gunslinger.

Movies: anything. I have a habit of falling asleep but when I wake up I’m too lazy to find the remote under the covers so I’ll watch whatever’s on.

TV: my DVR is always full because I watch so much. Let’s start by saying the series on HBO Showtime and Stars. If I named them this would be too long. Along with that is what i like to call reality 3g. These include discovery, history, and a few other channels. Than there’s mad men, fallen skies and many more.

Music: i have 4 individual terabyte hard drives full of music. I listen to anything and everything. Rite now on my go to playlist is Sade, Anita Baker, and Maxwell, but that will probably change within the next couple of days.

Food...I eat it all. I’ll try anything once. I’ve worked in pizzerias all thru high school so my gravy is amazing. I cook Italian food better than some Italians I know.
Six things I could never do without
Food, water, air, blah blah blah

Weed, Newport, sex, vodka, cable, and sleep. On a perfect day in that order, but some will be repeated.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Weed, Newport, sex, vodka, cable, and sleep. On a perfect day in that order, but some will be repeated.
What’s more fucked government or humanity? How am I going to build my doomsday bunker? What does she taste like? Bush, no bush or landing strip? What’s the next step for my business? Am I board or do I have a.d.d? And last but not least the #1 thing I think about...................... Am I high enough? (If I have to ask than probably not)
On a typical Friday night I am
It depends on what my week was like. Sat is my only full day off so friday anything can happen...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe that I have a little of both pinky and the brain in me.
You should message me if
You don’t take things too seriously.
You want to experience...everything.
You want to argue about something i wrote.
Or join in on something I wrote.
You want to enjoy laughing at life and enjoying it.
The two of us