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My self-summary
Eclectic is probably one of the best words to describe me, my life, and my friends. I love drum circles, broadway musicals, rock concerts and almost everything in between. I can be happy in an evening gown at a gala or jeans at a dive bar. I like dinner parties with intellectual conversation over a fine wine as much as I like skinny dipping in the creek with a bucket of mojitos. I usually have many people around me and love to hold huge parties, but time with special people in private and time alone are important too.

I am generally open-minded and adventurous but sometimes shy.

I am very happily Married. We are poly, if you don't know what that means, feel free to ask. We are totally open and honest about (and with) all of our partners. We don't believe in cheating because we tell each other everything.

What am I looking for: Well, I am not sure I am actively "looking for" anything. I generally feel as if what I "need" comes along, whether I look for it or not. :) I am open to talking to people and am always interested in getting to know interesting and fun people.

However; I should probably come with a caution label that says something about my crazy schedule that involves leaving town for a month or more at a time (for business) and the fact that I have my own business, a husband, and other people I am seeing ... so if you need someone who can give you their undivided attention at any time you need it at a moments notice, or spend every night of the week with you, I am probably not what you are looking for.

That is not to say that I don't try to be there for my friends and partners as much as possible and when a friend is in need, I am the kind of person who will drop everything and help if humanly possible.

I would, at some point like to have multiple life partners to experience life with, share a home with, travel with (at least sometimes), and share a poly lifestyle with. I like partners who are interested in meeting and getting along with each other.

My desire is for partners who are open-minded and like to experience new things ... whether it is a new restaurant, a new travel destination, or something new sexually.

I like partners who have many interests and are rather eclectic and intellectual in their tastes, but I am not a "snob".

I am NOT, however; interested in televised sports ... looking for people to jump into bed with ... going to have time to date someone several days a week (most of the time)... interested in people with jealousy issues ... interested in people who want to cheat on their significant other - honesty is important to me ...

That is quite a bit of information for one question in a "get to know me" section, but I like people to know what they are getting themselves into. Like I said, honesty is important to me. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am self-employed as I follow my bliss, and have been doing that full time since 2001. :)

I love to travel and traveling is an important part of my life and my career. I am a merchant/artist at Renaissance Faires, SCA events, fetish events and Pagan gatherings all over the east coast.
I’m really good at
Almost anything I really WANT to do. :) enjoying life, working hard, creating
The first things people usually notice about me
probably my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I really love the Kushiel series by Jaqueline Carey. Favorites are hard to choose ... there are sooooo many good books .... Some other favorites: "One" and "Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah" by Richard Bach, "A Lotus Grows in the Mud", some Anne Rice,some Ray Bradbury, Heinlein and so many others. There is definitely never a shortage of books to read in my house.

I watch movies in almost every genre there is. I can enjoy everything from cheesy entertainment to independant films depending on my mood.

I tend to listen to bands like Spiral Rhythm, Emerald Rose, Tempest, The Modern Icons, and Frenchy & the Punk. I love Celtic music - old and new - it must be in my blood (I think my heritage gives me tendencies toward Celtic music and good scotch). ;) I listen to almost anything - I usually like upbeat country, alternative, pop, rock... it's all good. I love blues and jazz too, which makes Baton Rouge an even lovelier place to live.

Food: Thai anyone? Sushi, Indian, real Tex-Mex ... the spicier the better ... just like life. Not that there isn't a great deal of comfort in curling up with a grilled cheese sandwich and tomato soup on a cold day...
I love to cook. We cook a great deal of Thai food at our house.

I have eclectic tastes in almost everything in life. I tend to get something out of every experience. In most things I prefer to be tempted by both subtlety and intensity.

I enjoy finding and learning new things as often as possible.
Six things I could never do without
Freedom, Friends, water (lake, ocean, or stream) - I'm lost without it, music, something to occupy my mind, hugs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life, people, creating, my work
On a typical Friday night I am
at a festival, a Ren Faire, a drum circle, out dancing, hanging with friends, or occasionally at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I admitted it here, it would no longer be private, would it?
You should message me if
The spirit moves you. Don't be shy... I welcome new friends.
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