DISCLAIMER: My profile is 90% about my philosophy on sex. So, if that doesn't interest you let me save you the weird face of disgust you might make if you read any further. What I say here does not mean I'm a rapist (yes, someone actually told me this). Although, if you have a rape fantasy that could be fun ;-) I'm just honest about what I'm looking for, a FWB who understands me, and someone that I understand. Besides, do you really wanna read another generic profile? Do you really care about my desire to "plan my next adventure" or that I am "living life to the fullest"? So lets move on shall we?
Step 1: Do you like my picture? I'm happy to send more via text or email, face included of course. If yes, move to Step 2.
Step 2: Read the following... yes I know it's long, sorry. But I read somewhere that women speak thousands of words more per day than men. So, suck it up ladies, if you read it out loud this will help fill your quota. Just make sure you're in private ;-)
In my experience, most women yearn to be dominated by a strong alpha male, even if they are afraid to admit it. Their definition of dominance varies slightly, but a common theme prevails. They want to be ravished and utterly consumed by a man while feeling safe. In other words they want to be treated like an object of desire and lust while still being respected. No, the two are not mutually exclusive. It is a woman's deepest, most natural, and most primal desire. Dominance and submission do not mean pain (well, just the right amount is ok), humiliation, or degradation to me. They are equal parts in a common goal. This union should leave a dominant man feeling totally accepted and empowered to take what he needs, while leaving a submissive woman feeling completely satisfied, safe, and utterly lusted after.
The secret to dominance and submission, in my opinion, is to understand that both partners actually have equal power over each other. You want me to lust after you (many women don't understand this huge power they have over men) and I want you to give yourself to me completely. The fact that I respect the power you have over me makes you feel safe.
So, let me tell you what I think you want and need:
You want to feel comfortable and safe submitting to a man. But make no mistake, you want him to aggressively take what he needs from you. Maybe you wanna put up a little resistance, but deep down you want a man to overcome that and take you. Dominance does not have to be overly physical, it can simply be deliberate action that makes you feel like the man is in control and wants to take what he needs from you.
You want a man who knows how to use his mouth, teasing and pleasing you all over your body. Then, just when you think you can't handle it anymore, he devours your pussy like it is the most delicious delicacy on Earth. You want a man to love your taste, to be able to read what your body wants and responds to, allowing you to relax completely and cum explosively all over his face, with quivering muscles and wobbly knees.
You're not into humiliation or degradation. But you want to have your head pulled back by your hair (not necessarily too hard), your ass slapped (maybe lighly, maybe hard) and grabbed by strong hands while a thick, throbbing cock pounds you from behind. You want that cock going balls deep on every stroke, filling and stretching your pussy completely as you cum hard, over and over again. Maybe you even want to be tied up, or held down, letting your man do whatever he wants to you. Maybe you want your man to tell you when you are allowed to have an orgasm. Maybe you want to beg for his cum.
You love everything about a man's cum because it is the ultimate expression of how much he desires you. It is an indication that leaves no ambiguity as to whether or not you pleased him. You want to feel his cock spasm, his seed pump into you, squirt all over your body, maybe on your face, in your mouth, down your throat... because taking his cum is the ultimate acceptance of him as a man and your most primal urge is to obtain his sperm. His orgasm is your reward and he wants to give it to you with every fiber of his being.
I'm happy to send pics over email or text, face included of course. I am married, but that's not why I hide my face. I have permission to play. I value privacy. I'm the kind of person who doesn't understand or use Facebook.
A little more about me... I'm just an interesting guy looking to meet an interesting woman for an ongoing friends with benefits type relationship and some drama free good times. Yes, I am actually interested in being "friends" with you, with no drama (in other words, no chance of a "relationship"). I'm 34 years old, 5'10" tall, about 170 lbs, in great shape, professional, highly educated, very successful, and laid back. I truly, honestly adore women. That's it, really simple.
Step 3: If you like what you read, take a chance and message me.
I've also come to realize that a lot of people take themselves WAY too seriously in this section.
Why didn't the skeleton go to the dance?
He had no-body to dance with.
- sex (duh)
- physical activity (working out and ice hockey for me)
- a job that's more than just a paycheck
- alone time (I'm very reserved and reflective)
- knowledge (I like to learn about things)
- tooth brush (ha! I almost made it all the way trying to be serious!)
Back to being serious... I have answered a lot of OKC questions and I actually think that is a pretty good way to get to know someone on here. So please check mine out.
Maybe you're a busy career girl who doesn't have the time or desire for a serious relationship. I dunno... You want an intelligent, good looking guy to hang out with who can give you that space, make you laugh, and stimulate your mind... among other things ;-)
I truly adore women. I like women of many different shapes, sizes, races, and personalities. I like younger women, I like older women. I think thin women are sexy, I think voluptuous women are incredible. I’m not attracted to really heavy women (BBW), just not my thing. I think confidence and intelligence are intoxicating. I think being sexy is as much a state of mind as a physical attribute. In other words, it's way more complicated than your dress size. I like women that take care of themselves physically and good hygiene is a must, as I’m sure it is for you. Being fit and active is attractive to me, even if your body is a little round around the edges.
In general, I just find women to be amazing and I’m attracted to many different body types and personalities.
Just be open to having a good time, exploring what you like, exploring what I like, and hopefully even making a friend.