40Wichita, United States
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My self-summary
I am a gay guy in his mid 30s that is on the adventure otherwise known as life. I like to have fun and roll with the dice as life rolls them. I am up for meeting cool and interesting people. I am a bit of an intellectual that someday hopes to find someone to love and share my adventures with.

I am only looking to meet people that are themselves. All I ask is that you be yourself. Please don't try and be something that you aren't. We shouldn't be fitting into life just because we want to fit in. We should be expressive and creative for who we want to be. Say hi. I am always looking to meet new folks.

So I am now back in Kansas. I bought a house and am working on fixing it up. Got 2 dogs and just enjoying life.

I have been working on getting in shape and working out. I have lost 20 lbs in the last 2 months and am continuing my journey to a healthier me.


I am artistic, happy, and adventerous
What I’m doing with my life
Mostly I am going to work and coming home, but I am working on being open to possibilities and persuing some interests that I have.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile is one of the first things that people notice about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- Would have to be Chris Rice novels. Something about how twisted they are really fascinates me. I also love fantasy books. I am constantly reading them.

Movies- I like all kinds of movies. Though my favorite are sci-fi. I watch comedy and drama. Most of my really favorite movies are about love though. Message in a bottle is a favorite as is sleepless in Seattle.

Music- I listen to music mostly when I am in my car driving. So I like something that goes well with driving. A nice warm day, the beach boys and an open road are a good relaxation and adventure.

Food- I like all kinds of food. If just depends on the mood I am in. I like Thai, Vietnamese, Chinese, American.
Six things I could never do without
I couldn't do without my family, my car, some way to express creative, hmmm I am a pretty simple individual so I am not thinking what else I could do without at the moment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Different people's perspectives on life. What we can do to make our community a better place and what I want out of life. I am constantly contemplating the meaning of life and what our purpose is here on the planet.
On a typical Friday night I am
hmm.. on a typical Friday night I am doing one of a couple of things. I am vegging out with a pizza and some movies just to unwind because it has been a stressful week. or I am either off on an adventure or planning my day for Saturday to ensure that I am going to have an adventure. I have been known to just get in the car and take off down a road to start an adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My biggest fear in life is that I will always be alone.
You should message me if
You are a nice person who enjoys life or want to know more about me.
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