38 Chattanooga, United States
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My self-summary
So after adding Orono Maine to the long list of places I have lived, I have accepted a job at UTC so I will finally get to call Chattanooga (my heaven on earth) home for the first time. I was born and raised in southeast Georgia so it's really home to me : ). It's nice to be back where we have discovered air conditioning -- in Msine they call it nature but I say people there are just a bit off lol.

Speaking of Georgia, I guess you could say I am doing things backwards lol. I spent the winter in Maine in one of the harshest winters ever and now I'm back spending the summer here when it's hot and humid. Go figure 😛

I have been at the game a long time so I know that from having lived all over the country that there are dead zones for guys just like there are dead zones for cell service lol . Of course it's times likes those when you have to say will travel upon call hahaha. I've done it before by driving as much as 5 hours or so so I'm no stranger to it when the right guy comes along that I take a serious interest in. I can say that when you live in a state where "gay clubs" have more women than men in them like Maine, something just ain't right!

Just looking to see who's out there. As a college professor, i recently took a year off to teach high school in Atlanta-- and I most assuredly am relieved to be going back to higher Ed. I have my career in place and now I am looking to get my love life in order too.

I would love to find the guy to settle down with. The one who is as passionately committed and devoted to me as I am to him. The guy who is my best friend, lover, and confidant all in one. Call me old fashioned but I have to believe there are guys out there who still believe in that dream of sharing that life with one guy and who still in believe in utter commitment, devotion, and trust in the other guy.

Of course, that type of relationship doesn't develop over night. It takes time to build. In the meantime, it's fun to just be dating discovering one another.

Trust me for all of you guys who are new to online dating, take it from one of the old pros. I look forward to the day when I can disable all of my online profiles. I would love to get out of the rat race and take myself off the meat market. It has done nothing but ruin my self confidence over the years and taught me to expect rejection, so much so that when I find a guy with mutual interest, I always question why he would take an interest in me. Of course beyond the physical which I will never add up to in here, there's also all the typical gay scene stuff that I've never been a part of. To top it all off, I'm 36 so getting older and still searching on here even though I know how sad and pathetic that sounds . Hey, I'm a hard luck case what can I say? But at least I'm honest :) !

I don't have an alist membership on here so if you decide to like me and want me to know it, you will have to send me a message lol.
What I’m doing with my life
Between work and the gym these days not much else since its just me lol. Though I do spend some time playing poker occasionally.
I’m really good at
Poker, having deep discussions, games, math (of course lol),etc
The first things people usually notice about me
Im really easy to talk to and that I have a big warm caring heart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Definitely a cheeseburger and pizza kind of guy when im not dieting. Like a lot of reality shows along with Revenge and The Firm. Music I am entirely eclectic about but my favorite currents bands are Maroon 5 and One Republic. I also adore Adele even though her music is depressing -- a lot of her music mirrors how I feel about my past relationships lol.
The six things I could never do without
My iPhone
Sense of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing or out the casino these days since it's just me
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing here haha
You should message me if
You want to!