29Goleta, United States
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My self-summary
Opening up comes naturally for me when asked questions.

I'm a radical free-thinker with a strong basis for how I should think and act. Open-minded, kind, confident yet humble, and weird. Free-flowing, yet methodical (wavy?).

I'm in an awesome (non-monogamous) relationship with SuperSeaStar. We're looking for more friends who respect our affinity for living and loving like this, so please reach out!
What I’m doing with my life
Working toward my phd in philosophy at UCSB. This will be my 7th (and last!) year.

Why am I doing what I’m doing? I find it intellectually and emotionally rewarding and, ultimately, a platform to make a genuine impact on the world.

I’m liberal, especially when it comes to human rights issues. Very much about the revolution of thought.


Trying to meet people who love to love and know how to let go.

Meeting with SURJ so I can take direction for once.
I’m really good at
Being both reasonable and empathetic. I have a knack for helping others unravel their feelings and thoughts.

Crypt of the Necrodancer.


Calling people out when they say ridiculous things in such a way that they might learn from it.

Cutting through the bullshit that infects our everyday lives.

Re-reading this, I come off as dry and serious, but I can be super goofy too!
The first things people usually notice about me
My luscious locks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
East of Eden, China, Il, Deadwood, Adaptation, The Graduate, Chance the Rapper, Fugazi, Charles Mingus, The Magnetic Fields, Splatoon, Pizza, Vietnamese Coffee, Rainbow Cookies
Six things I could never do without
The people I love
Art & Philosophy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Self-improvement, personal identity, what we know and how we know it, how to be a good person, how to help, art, people, emotions, patterns, hidden messages, self-reference, circular reasoning, the kinds of things I should be thinking about, the nature of consciousness, collective experience, truth, beauty, sex, political revolution, death, paradoxes, ways of thought, how to avoid and undermine rational manipulation, how to educate the masses, micro aggressions, intersectional feminism, stubbornness, skepticism, mediation, change, and mental health.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably smoking weed. I can't really remember.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
No thanks! Too much information will make it much too easy for you to peg me.
You should message me if
Love and friendship are important to you and you could use another friend :)

You straddle life by living with one foot in and one foot out. (Or if you have any clue what I mean by this. I'm not sure I know what I mean).

You have any suggestions for three(ish)-word sayings whose words have the first letters "F.D.T" (eg. Fluidity Deepens Thought)
The two of us