jonstr
49 Liverpool, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
Hi! Im not sure what to say about myself? People often say I'm spiritual, I used to teach yoga, I like to think about The Big Picture. I try to think outside of the box. I rarely drink or take drugs. I used to- now I look for other ways to widen my horizons, like meditation, painting, sex. I don't mind other people drinking or getting high as long as they stay good company. Often I'm serious but when I relax I can be silly and have fun. I seem to be a complex person- in some ways I'm very tolerant, in others i'm uptight. sometimes I'm chatty and confident, sometimes nervous and withdrawn

My ideas about why Im going on a dating site keep changing. First i thought i just want casual sex, then I thought writing a profile would be a good exercise in self awareness. Next i thought I might find people who are interested in open relationships. Finally it seems maybe I could just try and make friends... the only thing I'm clear on is that I DONT want to get into a monogamous relationship. Thats because I've found it much much easier to stay friends with ex lovers from open relationships. And that long term connection is important to me if I.m gonna make a big emotional investment.

On paper a fling should be okay, but I can get emotionally attatched. That sounds like Im clingy, does.t it? probably I am. I had a difficult childhood, which Im working on in counselling. I'm still learning to deal with strong feelings and to trust myself

The more I write the less it seems like other peoples profiles that I read!
What I’m doing with my life
I love the outdoors, I have an allotment, I'm learning Tai chi, I love spending time with my son. I sing in a choir, I love live music- living in liverpool is great for that
I’m really good at
cooking
massage
gardening
Listening
The first things people usually notice about me
probably the beard when i have one! : )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
film-My own Private Idaho
Delicatessan
Toy Story
book- Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance
The hero with a thousand faces
Little house on the Prarie
music-first wave punk-The clash, elvis costello
indy guitar - pixies, Andy White
classical-Beethoven, handle
folk, bluegrass, cajun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
myself!
how does everything fit together?
sex
where I want to live
My son
My friends
On a typical Friday night I am
sometimes i go to yoga class, sometimes to see a band; I more often go out mon and tues to see live music
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