joseph1731
44 Santa Cruz, United States
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My self-summary
I will always be open and honest with you. I love the sense of connection that vulnerability brings.

Sweet, kind, playful, that's how I'm usually described. At other times, passionate, present, space holder, accepting, loving. With a woman, I would like to explore further, to embrace our desires, our longing, to open to our passion. This could be a long-term exploration. To follow practices and exercises that bring that deeper connection. Or, we could share an intense meeting to find a beautiful fulfillment and gratitude with one another.

Meditative, contemplative, sensual, affectionate, yoga, love to dance, brilliant, self-aware and introspective. Attended many courses on tantra, personal growth, yoga and healthy living. I'm not perfect and don't expect you to be. I take responsibility for my actions and ask you to do the same.

To share tears, joy, anger, bliss, it's all beautiful. To dance all night. To take turns holding space for one another and offer a space of empathy when needed.

Short Term: I'm open to friends, lovers, playmates. I would love to adore you and see you as the magnificent creature that you are. To accept you as you are, your light, your dark, bring it on! Let's explore the city, the area and have adventures together.

Long Term: Ultimately, I would like a long term/life partner. To support and challenge one another. To help one another become awake and free. If we are in alignment, perhaps a child together. Ideally, to do spiritual practices together, to create that delicious masculine/feminine polarity.
What I’m doing with my life
That's what I ask myself every day. I feel like I'm at the tail end of a career in the computer field and now finding my way to a path with more heart. I recently set some two-year goals and have been working towards that end.
I’m really good at
Making chocolate superfood smoothies with extra Reishi. Mmmm.... chocolate. Love making raw-food creations. Hosting raw-food meetups and events.
The first things people usually notice about me
Yes, I can fix your computer! Ok, I look like a techie and well, 'I resemble that remark!'. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite authors - Herman Hesse, Louise Hay, Osho. Shows - Firefly, Doctor Who, Music - Kirtan, classical
Movies - Anything with James Dean. Sci-Fi with heart
The six things I could never do without
Clever jokes that one can't help but to laugh
Simple affection where we melt into the moment
Endless Adyashanti lectures running in background
Trips to the bookstore, or at least Amazon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's out there that I'm not familiar with. There are always new ideas, concepts, techniques... Lately, been fascinated with speed-learning/reading. It's really about changing the way the mind works, from inner vocalization to putting words into creative pictures, which is how the brain stores them long term.

Also, been interested in Lucid Dreams and how to use them to explore the inner world and what other potentials they offer. Just started on both.
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe lounging around reading a good book, or off to the hot springs to hang out with some wonderful friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm hopelessly addicted to kale chips.
You should message me if
Live in the area and would like to explore new places and activities. Check out the veggie/raw-restaurants in the area.

OR You would like to do partner yoga / acroyoga

Or You are looking for an OM partner

Also, I work from home and can move fairly easily. Although, at some point, I would love to find a home-base, then we can travel as we please.
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