37San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
UPDATE: April 2017, will overhaul this profile soon, but my wife and I just became parents of a beautiful baby boy. This I/we are still looking for partners either individually or as a triad (though we won't turn away any unicorns), you just have to be able to accept that our time is limited for the next few months. We aren't going to be hermits, but don't expect to see each other 6 times a week to start out! Also, interested in talking with other parents who are in open relationships to see how they make it work as well as all potential amorous connections.

(so much of what can be said here seems repeated in the rest of the questions...) Originally from the Midwest, have been on the West Coast since 2001. I work for a non-profit theater company and love what I do... most days. I'm inquisitive and always interested in learning something or someone new.
What I’m doing with my life
Switched jobs a couple of years ago and am much happier professionally. I work too much, and can get too stressed, but I also give 110% in everything I do. Now i'm looking to find people to help me enjoy the downtime and give some reasons to get out of the office!
I’m really good at
I think it is a constant search to find all that I'm good at, but i'm damn good at my job, believe i'm a pretty great friend, and am good at doing the little things to make others happy.
The first things people usually notice about me
Lately, it's been the blue streak in my hair, but it's probably my hair in general that catches people's notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love anything by Laurel K. Hamilton and The Dresden Files. I watch a lot of Netflix TV (Dr. Who, Eureka, Warehouse 13, Burn Notice, White Collar - just started Blacklist - it's brilliant) and will listen to pretty much any music. I love diner food/home cooking or fine dining equally.
Six things I could never do without
Good Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything. I rarely stop thinking....
On a typical Friday night I am
depends on the week, but if i'm not a work, i love to make dinner and curl up on the couch with a good movie. don't get me wrong though, i love going out to dinner, movies, shows, but tend to avoid the Friday night chaos if i'm on my own.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i'll answer any question you have the courage to ask. life is too long to try and keep things hidden.
You should message me if
you are looking to have some fun, whatever that may be. I will try damn near anything twice!

Just to be up front and honest, I am in an open relationship, but i don't have any expectations for new relationships, i just want to see where they lead, be it to friends, lovers or enemies, or something in between

update: Am interested in finding a bi girl who wants to play with my partner and i. Not a requirement if you are just interested in meeting one on one, but we are open to it!
The two of us