36Rotterdam, Netherlands
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My self-summary
Self summary would imply that I know exactly who I am, which, well, I don't .
I've been trying to define myself, but I can't quite figure it out yet, I see it more as an ongoing process to learn to understand the world around me.

Next to that, I probably don't even have to define myself, as I am different in every situation based on companions and context, and instead of "knowing who you are" I believe Ishould take life as it goes, be open and try to live in the moment and enjoy that as good as possible
What I’m doing with my life
experiencing, trying out things that I might like and reflecting whether or not I actually liked it. Defining what it is I actually want at a certain time and doing it. Trying to be out with people as much as possible and finding a state of mental relaxation.
I’m really good at
*asking open questions
*judging peoples'character on first sight
*reading ( bit less now, but i used to be able to close myself off entirely just reading a book or an article trying to grasp it)
The first things people usually notice about me
as a typical dutchie I'm quite tall
Also, I'm said to be quite "bijdehant" which ofcourse I do not agree on, judge for yourself :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
right, too many to name really, but let's give it a shot

Books, mainly fantasy, but have read various other things, Ludlum to name one I really like. Fantasy wise Ive read Terry Goodkind, David Eddings, Tad Williams and currently ( very slowly) going through the Game of Thrones series.

Moviewise, I'll watch about anything that grasps my attention. I love unknown arthouse movies. A few random favorites include Goodbye Lenin, Amelie, Intouchables and A Beautiful Mind

Serie wise, I don't watch much TV lately but the series I have enjoyed are Big Bang Theory, Battlestar Galactica, Spartacus, Game of Thrones and Go Girls

Music, basically whatever feels best from the choices I have at the time of listening, a few artists i generally enjoy multiple songs of include
Asaf Avidan
Paul Kalkbrenner
Yann Tiersen
Six things I could never do without
People to share minds with
a sense of adventure
trying to think of more, but all seems replacable and not neccessary to get through life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to fully relax by doing things that make me happy
On a typical Friday night I am
trying to enjoy the first night of weekend and do whatever I feel like :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
it's private for a reason :-)
You should message me if
you enjoy having good talks about nothing and everything or if you just enjoy meeting new people and see life as an adventure
The two of us