42Arlington, United States
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My self-summary
I used to love this site because I thought the more detail I could add or read of others, the better chance of the fit. Then I grew to my current understanding about relationships which is... most of this doesn't matter.

If I can meet your needs with reasonable accommodation, and you can do the same for me, and we are both ready to step up into a committed, long term relationship, then I don't care what tv shows you watch, or what your favorite music is. I'd hate to think how many good prospects were passed up because they liked pepsi instead of coke.

I want to know if you're afraid of intimacy. I want to know if you can communicate your needs. I want to know if you are running from something inside yourself and have no sense of it.

I want to know if you get why the world is how it is or if you are frustrated by others and disappointed by the people around you (empathic and understanding the connected nature of humanity vs. not).

I'm not perfect on all above counts, so I don't expect you to be; but if the above sounds like complete gibberish to you, we probably aren't in the right place for each other.

My previous summary read:

Seeking/promoting the best for the most. I'm on that path to acceptance, of self and of others. Moving from the ego toward what's inside.
What I’m doing with my life
Teaching, volunteering with the fire department, working on my Masters, working on a property I purchased to serve as an alternate reality to DC.
I’m really good at
Interpersonal sensing and perception, wanting to help, thinking outside the box, and driving large, heavy vehicles at high rates of speed, through heavy traffic conditions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm pretty open. If I'm thinking it on the inside, I may very well be saying it on the outside (in a good way, I think).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: Fidel Castro - My Life
Movies: Movies made less for profit and more for the art
Shows: Democracy Now's The War and Peace Report, PBS News Hour, Frontline.
Music: Don't really know a genre I don't at least like some of.
Food: Strictly Anything
Six things I could never do without
The ability to identify and ignore irrelivant questions
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is best.
On a typical Friday night I am
Happy hour with coworkers or Grad-work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
one answer away from the most public thing I'm unwilling to share
You should message me if
You're ready.
The two of us