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My self-summary
No longer single. Thanks OKC! 3/3/13

Feel free to message if you want a new friend or someone to hang out with.

11/20/2012 Totally just erased and saved a blank profile so I had to rewrite it and stop being lazy. I'm now annoyed, but I can't leave without fixing it now.

ENTP - The Inventor

Down to 3-4 cigarettes a day. Start Psychology classes April 2013!!

Im 31 years old, total nerd, and looking for someone similar. I am self employed as someone who does video audits for training and coaching. You could also say a mystery shopper. It gives me the opportunity to travel a few thousand miles in the first week or two each month...and then have nothing to do but relax and fun things the rest of the month. Wouldn't mind having a travel partner sometimes!

I took the tardis to Chicago a few weeks ago from the suburbs. I went on a 3 month trip around the United States nipping a travel bug in the ass that had been following me for a while. I still love to explore, but it would be nice to hang out inside and cuddle over a movie or games. Dr. Who, Borderlands....yes please!

Im like gaming, reading The Dresden Files and Star Wars, and other suitably nerdy activities....like the Zombie walk, comic-con, or countrywide road trips. Ive logged 22ish states in the last 3 months by car.

I go downtown for drinks and food a few times a week, usually for work since I am a mystery shopper. Theres nothing better than food and drink than free food and drink..plus getting paid for it.

No tattoos, almost did with my last partner but she went crazy, lied a lot, and it sort of lost it's allure. I was entertaining a tri-force or something similar, open to suggestions but c'mon..Zelda is what got me started on my quest to nerd life. I don't mind tattoos on my partner at all, and maybe you can even convince me can be a partner in crime for my first. (that's a not so subtle hint one of you out there reading this)

Im really interested in finding another chill person who is nerdy, deviant at times, and not boring. I love random, crazy, and even broken is fine. I show affection, appreciate awesomeness, and want to share that with someone who exudes these traits. If you have your own tin foil hat, or a zombie escape plan, this is a big plus.

Seriously though, I don't want games. I've had more than my share of that. Honesty, deviance, cute, random, nerdy...all great traits. I will treat you right, and will still come stand in line for your midnight release even if the game sucks!
What I’m doing with my life
I used to work for Chase but did not enjoy my work although good at it. Now I am an independant contractor. Basically I do mystery shopping, audits, compliance shops, and other various contract work. It allows me to travel, work when I want, and the perks reduce my normal expenses. Yes mystery shopping is real, its not all a scam if you get involved with the right people.

My most recent trip or work took me to Texas, then across to florida, back to Louisiana and then up to Niagara Falls and back here to Chicago.

*Update* Went to a resort in Sandusky Ohio this year during spring break and am speaking at the mystery shoppers convention in a week in Chicago.

Now outside of work I am just looking to meet that special someone to connect with. Those of you who have had it know what I am talking about. I'm not here to mess around or get some. I want to find a potential lifetime partner.
I’m really good at
I enjoy planning trips and events. I am an expert at traveling the country on the cheap or free. You just have to be willing to do a little bit of extra work for it is all. My latest trip went by car from Chicago to Key West to Daytona Beach for under 200$ and we stayed in a luxury hotel for 2 nights, and a resort during spring break for 4 nights.

I am good at listening as well. I tend to offer analytical and logical advice, but I like to lead people to come to their own conclusions. Most times people know what to do :P

I also type ridiculously fast. It has it's benefits that's for sure.

I am pretty decent and making people laugh too. I kind of feed off the energy that others give off, so helping people around me be happy is kind of a good thing.

I'm amazing at making people feel good about themselves as well as showing romance and chivalry is not forgotten.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes or smile. Personality wise, sarcasm is an art form. Learn it, love it, live it. Loud and obnoxious laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anne Mccaffrey, anything Tom Clancy, Michael Crichton, Timothy Zahn, Spy, Sun Tsu's The Art of War, Mystery, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Twilight, and lot's more.

I consider myself a fairly accomplished chef. I enjoy taking recipes I enjoy at a restaurant and learning how to cook them myself at home. I'll try making anything, and I love cooking for new people. I enjoy the challenge of making something they truly enjoy, or maybe reminds them of home. I really enjoy italian dishes. Pretty much anything with sauce.

I'm a huge fan of Dave Matthews Band. I try to hit 2 or 3 shows a year, one always involves traveling out of state.

I am very eclectic when it comes to my music. I listen to pretty much anything from ACDC, christian rock, Kesha, and Usher. My ipod is versatile and I have yet to find someone who couldn't' find a couple of songs they liked on there. I also have a secret love for lots of 80's music.

TV: Lie to me, glee, greys anatomy, private practice, human target, house, lost, psyche, nip tuck, battlestar gallactica, community, vampire diaries and a few others. I dvr everything and when I have free time or can't sleep I catch up on everything.
Six things I could never do without
Obviously food clothes and shelter is a given as well as friends and family. My OTHER six items are...in alphabetical order so no one gets jealous.

Cell Phone
Random addiction at the moment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When is my next pre order due at Gamestop.

When will I find someone who literally accepts and can handle me. :)

Whatever I am currently independantly researching. I am an information sponge and love learning.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking for somewhere to go or someone to hang out with. I enjoy staying in and watching a movie just as much as I enjoy going out. I'm pretty open to anything as long as its interesting or a new experience.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't have any secrets for the right person. Don't abuse that if you end up being her! Secrets on here...well hell, i don't have many secrets period.
You should message me if
I am not looking for games and you shouldn't be either. I don't care if you're broken or have issues. We all do. Just don't have baggage like an ex it isn't over with. That's really a line that I won't cross, and you shouldn't be either!

(Adding a clarification here as it came up in someone I spoke to on here. There is a difference between being in love with an ex and you are NOT seeking them out or trying to be with them, or figure out if you are staying with them. I had a girl string me along and essentially after 5 months finally admitted she was not over him. I didn't realize at the time she started seeing me a week after their "break-up" or Id never have been involved) So, It's okay if you are still in love with someone assuming you know you are ready to date.

You read my profile and were entertained or intrigued to know more.

You're down to earth and have a general idea of what you want.

You have a good sense of humor. Bonus if you're sarcastic on top of it.

You too are looking for a potential lifelong relationship.

You think I am cute! I will get pictures that are clearer and with me shaved. I don't typically let things get so scruffy, little bit yes, but not THAT much.

If you caught the word I spelled wrong.

And lastly you haaave to like to cuddle.
The two of us