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My self-summary
well hellO there
thanks for clicking me !

I've done so much and come a long way, feels like im starting my 3rd lifetime this go round. Excited to see what fantastic~ness awaits me around corners i cant even see yet.

I'm an intense type, I think in a good way. i have gravitas and impact and sway. Piercing blue eyes and a kind heart. I have learned so much in the empathy school that i find how i look at people and life and myself has changed. Lets say for the better. I care. i love. I'm sexy and discerning and hilarious when you get in. Im insightful and nuerotic. Balanced mixture of brooding and fantastic light. Im a teacher and an empath. A cook and an editor, a creative person in mind and body. I've suceeded in fluffing off the mainstream path for an adventure that i can only surrender to and smile at. As my quest to know thyself, in this case myself, has lead me on some pretty wide turns and unexpected places. Pearls left in all the difficult parts. For these i am humbled and grateful.

The difficult parts always reveal gifts. Lets call them silver linings as my relationship to silver is a strong one. My work now as a healer, coach, empath revealing itself. Engaging in a reclamation of power modality where I'm helping people traverse their shadow parts. It's incredibly rewarding and to see it taking shape is a dream come true.

I want connection and love and sex and laughter and intimacy. . And it's not a course to be traversed lightly although sometimes i wish I could. I'm double taurus with a virgo moon. Enneagram 4 wing3. In case you like that kind of stuff. I engage with things spiritual. without all the window dressing. The latest path being what they call 'the medicine'. What a wild intense revealing trip it's been.

I'm drawn to beauty in it's many unexpected forms as what i would define as beauty has evolved. I love being invited and usually add something special to a room.

Ok. It's either go on and on or just say...you found quality and depth here. Don't hesitate to reach out and say HEY.

What I’m doing with my life
Integrating the myriad of gifts and complexities within myself. Taking my show to town. Trusting more. In service to the feminine in her and in us all. Helping women build their online brands. Putting a quality of attention on clients that changes them in deep ways. Recovering form an adrenal condition. Getting good at patience. Wondering how part two will unfold and what magic awaits...
I’m really good at
hmmmm, kissing. touch. editing. listening. putting attention on you. turning you on/ keeping you there mercilessly.. seeing people. saying the thing most people can't find words for. building brands online. making people feel safe and welcome. making people laugh. coaching. dressing you (stylist). cuddling, concepting, manifestation. understanding the higher spiritual perspectives. loving my dad. empathy. cooking one pot meals. slowing down. drawing you out.
The first things people usually notice about me
My piercing blue eyes. A certain stealth, intensity style and charm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
spotify is helping me reclaim a lost part : ) jaime XX, ben howard, Alt-J, james blake, death cab, war on drugs, jose gonzales, iron/wine, chet faker, markus marr, deerhunter, kurt vile.. for now...
The six things I could never do without
that ass
special sneakers
ionized water
my deep connections
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my dad
health and wellness
markets, silver and the end game
how to navigate the asymmetry of it all
masculine and feminine dynamics
how to touch the beauty i can only feel sometimes
waking up
On a typical Friday night I am
friday is monday is thursday,
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i don't really know where all this is going. on some level i'm allowing universe to show me where my path in relationship is. could i have a kid, maybe.. although it's feeling less likely. i'm trusting that the right thing will appear and from there i can make decisions about how to proceed. i never really was ready to love the way i am now, after all this learning. if you are lucky enough to get in the way of my attention --there is going to be some winning ;)
You should message me if
ok great, i have 521 likes and no idea who you are.. .
you have a willingness and desire to be seen and connect...
you can go deep and laugh hard...
physical intimacy and touch are important to you...
you know what your basic astrology is...
surrender is soemthing you like to play with ...
you have a spiritual perspective...