I'm also a realist. I believe in being forthcoming, honest, and direct with others. In the long run, it will help them and help yourselves. It is what I want from others, also, even if it's not necessarily what I want to hear. That being said, there is a real difference between being judgmental and being concerned. If we are to share ourselves with others, sometimes criticism can come off as judgmental, which causes strife. So I try not to offer advice or anything unless directly asked.
I really enjoy listening to people. Many people never get to tell their story, so it's so interesting to hear what people have to say.
I do not have much of a family life and I am not very close with them...so I try to make friends and people from my church close and may consider them, after some time, family.
I am loyal, honest, and compassionate.
I'm really good at listening and talking to people, and giving feedback. I feel it is important to let the other person talk, while I listen and keep an open mind.
I'm a good planner. I try to plan things and be thorough with them. It is really hard for me to sit back and let someone else plan something for me, ha ha.
Also, my laugh is very distinct. It's not hard to make me laugh either. I can be a bit awkward sometimes, and I'm pretty introverted. It is hard for me to express myself sometimes.
Keeping along those same lines, I have a dry sense of humor. I know it doesn't show much in this profile, but it is there.
Music- A lot of different music. I'm picky within genres, but there's something from almost every genre I actually like.
Movies- Not much of a movie person, but occassionally I like the action movies, or a romantic comedy, or whatever the person I'm with enjoys.