39Indianapolis, United States
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My self-summary
I am a nice guy who wears his heart on his sleeve. I am honest to a flaw sometimes. Ask me anything and I will tell you, so I warn you of this up front. I like the out of the ordinary, but can be old fashioned at times. I keep a very open mind, and prefer others who do too.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a software developer, but got started a little late in life. I take my career serious and really enjoy it. I wanted to live outside of the country at some point, but now I think I will just try to travel more. I own my house, but I am not stuck on staying in Indiana in the long term. I would like to get married if I find the right person. I actually am looking for the right person, but Miss Right for right now wouldn't hurt either.
I’m really good at
Almost anything with computers. Making friends...when given a chance. Cooking. I love to cook and have thought of culinary school for fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height 6'4". My eyes are kind, some women have told me, and noticed often. Being outgoing, honest, and actually interested in other people, I sometimes come across like I am hitting on women even if I am not. This is more because people don't know how to deal with someone being nice and honest from the start.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Ok, I admit, I loved the Harry Potter series. Besides, I could talk about it with my niece and nephew, and it got them interested in reading, so who can't hate that. I like autobiographies, technical stuff I can learn from, and fantasy novels occasionally.

I like a little of everything in movies and music. I will give most anything a chance and just see if I like it first. In music especially, I love a variety, but it depends on my mood. If I am relaxing, give me emo, jazz, or trance. If I am energetic, Fallout boy is good, Lordi, Korn. I could list about a hundred of my favorite artists, from Van Morrison to the Doors, Dave Matthews to Frank Sinatra, George Clinton to Ludacris, and many more. Don't judge based on the few I listed, but ask me if I know or like something. If I havn't heard of it, I still might like it.

FOOOOOD. I am a foodie. I like fresh veggies, juicy meats, seafood, wonderful sauces. I like to cook, and experiement. I tend to eat healthy, but I don't mean bran muffins and just yogurt for lunch. Give me a nice steak and Broccoli for Iron, yogurt and skim milk for Calcium, whole grain bread and multi-grain pasta for carbs. I make a mean Gumbo, Shrimp Scampi, Baklava, and will give about anything a try.
Six things I could never do without
My computer/Internet.
Music of any kind
Friends, I am way to social.
My bed, I bought a nice $1400 bed and find it hard to sleep when not home in my bed.
Free will. You make your life better or ruin it for yourself. Blame whoever you want, but it's you who decides to fight for what you want.
Hope, because without it, what else is there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. I am very contemplative. Honestly, lately, I think about how to better myself to attract the type of woman I want. I think very philosophically also, but argue my points rarely.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting dinner and a movie or going out with some friends. I try not to go to bars as much anymore. Lately, staying in, cooking, and doing something relaxing sounds nice, like a board game or reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have sleep apnea, and it has been a struggle to just get a good night's sleep.
You should message me if
You actually want to go on a date. I love making friends, but I am looking for romance here. If you are very open minded and a little classy you are my type.

If you are not stoned or fall down drunk every weekend. I only rarely drink very much.

Don't like to play head games, and can communicate well.
The two of us