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My self-summary
"Life is all about finding people who are your kind of crazy."

Civility is respect in the very core of its meaning. If you are not affable and cannot have a conversation without respecting someones personal boundaries then I am simply not interested. I also would hope you have read at least some of my profile before messaging me, if not you may be missing some valuable info :)

Eclectic is a good word to describe my life. I am a geek and proud of it. I enjoy many hobbies; swimming, kayaking, camping, bowling, disc golf, dancing, painting, photography, crafting, sewing, crochet, baking, gardening, board games. I like some video games, but they usually frustrate me. I like playing dress up, lol.. And I've always wanted to go to a murder mystery dinner theater. I don't hunt, but I am a Northern MI girl. I like to shoot guns (at inanimate objects), fish and play in the mud. I love to learn and explore. I enjoy the little things and am always curious, especially when it comes to nature. Our world really is a fascinating place. I love science. I am always looking for a new adventure and have a tendency to get restless. I love to be outside in the sun and the fresh air. I have my lazy days too, especially when its cold. I like to curl up with a soft blanket or soak in a bubble bath and simply relax. I am a creative soul and my life would not be whole without art. I love to travel and I want to see the world. Along the way I hope to meet a lot of great people.

There is always too much to put into these things, but I wouldn't want to destroy the mystery anyways. I can be shy sometimes. I'm often sarcastic and I love to laugh. Sometimes I am very emotional. I am generous and love to help others and have been told I'm a great listener.

I am interested in polyamory. I would consider monogamy for the right person. I have fought my true nature for far too long! I love openly, I always have. I want my intimate life to reflect that. I am mostly just here for friends right now, but if I find love it was meant to be :) I want to meet exciting new people who share my interests and love for life. I am young and wild and free, just the way I want to be! I am open to different types of relationships, but not interested in drama or completely meaningless sex.

Anyways, if you are looking to get to know someone with a big heart, a friendly smile and a passionate mind, I'm the girl ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Hallelujah, I've made it to Denver! I have been enjoying myself emensly, but would like to make some new friends. I am in a Child Development program online. Eventually I will be an elementary school teacher, for now I am just hoping to find a job doing something I love. I <3 cupcakes! I own a home bakery business, but right now it seems to be more of a hobby. Someday I will vend on the 16th street mall and hopefully own a store front. I am also designing my future abode. I want a cozy, creative, eco-friendly shipping container castle :) Explanation? Just ask.. Oh, also planning and will be "training" for a trip to Dallol, Ethiopia is a couple year.
I’m really good at
Being myself :) Teaching and interacting with kids. Listening. Writing. Learning. Being creative.

I am also a pretty talented baker and cake decorator. I can usually tell if a cupcake is done baking just by looking at it :)
The first things people usually notice about me
Good question.. Probably my eclectic fashion choices, I get comments a lot about my mix matched socks and my platypus hat.

As far as my personality.. Probably that I can be deadly quiet when you first meet me, but if I like you that changes. I may seem nervous as I scan and take in my environment. Its how I learn. I'm very introverted, with a splash of crazy, random, awkward enthusiasm :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love, love, love a good story, be it a book, a show or movie, or a song :)

Stephen King is my favorite author, but I enjoy most things supernatural and sci fi. The Hunger Games was one of my favorite book series. Currently I am reading the Matched series and 'milking' the last book, because I hate it when a good story ends. I also like some historical fiction. I love non-fiction too, anything that teaches me something new and exciting. Oh and I collect children's books, my favorite is Skippy John Jones :)

Movie, oh my goodness, I wouldn't even know where to begin. I have seen so many great ones. Most recently, I was very impressed by the Hunger Games movie, it may have even outdone the book (that may be a first!) and The Lorax. Don't know that there is a genre I don't like. If its done well and has a good story, I'm game!

Like with books, I tend to drift to scifi shows. Currently a few of my faves are Supernatural, Lost Girl, Being Human, Haven, The Walking Dead and Once Upon a Time. I also love a show that can keep me laughing. The Big Bang Theory and Raising Hope are my favorite comedies. And Weeds was the best dramedy I have ever watched.

My taste in music is very diverse. I am kind of picky about sound though. I don't like anything that is too clashy, repetitive, or heavy and I like to be able to understand lyrics. The only time I don't mind obnoxious music is if I can dance to it :) I listen to mostly alternative. My all time favorites are Eve 6, Matchbox 20, Blind Melon, Modest Mouse and Green Day.

Food and I have problems.. I love food, but there are many things I can't eat because of severe food intolerances. I can't tolerate most artificial colors or sweeteners, tomatoes unless they are processed and bananas.. Banana's are evil, lol, unless they are cooked, because they are flipping delicious, but make me sicker than a dog if I eat them raw. I love cupcakes! Baking them, decorating them and eating them :) I also love prime rib and fried shrimp.
Six things I could never do without
Natural, allergy free foods
Human connections
Paper and pen
Mode of transportation
My Dexter dog :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future, my goals, my dreams. The things I want to do and see. My education. My health. Creative ideas. The people in my life. The state of the world and what I can do to help. And unfortunately money, or the lack thereof.
On a typical Friday night I am
It really depends.. I go through phases. Sometime I want to be in, sometimes out on the town. Sometimes alone, others visiting friends and or family. When I move back to a bigger city my Friday nights will be much more interesting, but Northern MI is kind of boring.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe in ghosts and in a way that reincarnation is possible
I often wonder what I would do in a zombie apocalypse
I believe I have psychic intuition, it runs in my family
I also believe that without a doubt (and without proof) that my family was directly descended from gypsies

I believe in science, but I also believe that there are things that are beyond our knowledge and capabilities and I am fascinated by the possibilities.
You should message me if
You are looking for a friend and/or think I sound interesting

You are an interesting, creative, adventurous person

You have an open-mind and a heart of gold

You embrace your inner geek

You know the difference between denotation and connotation and you respect the power words can have

You know of great places for me to get my geek on and explore my hobbies and you potentially want to go with me :)

Please don't message if all you want to talk about is sex, if you are looking for a quick-fix relationship or to ask me if I'm real (Yes, this has happened). I'm not a robot, no matter how much I wish I was :P
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