52Asheville, United States
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My self-summary
I find myself living a life brimming with adventure.

And I feel ready to explore and expand further.

I choose to find and express my authenticity.
I choose presence, vulnerability and full engagement.

I like to connect with nature. I like to move while cultivating full awareness of my body.

Sometimes I describe myself as a blend of an artist and an engineer.

The Meyers Briggs Personality Type Indicator classified me as an ENFP.

I see mindful caress/touch as a means to trigger, ecstatic embodied states of mind and personal growth.
What I’m doing with my life
I find myself desiring to experience the ebb and flow of friendship.
Savoring juicy emotion triggering play of all types.
Seeking playful, touch rich, emotionally connected, emotionally intimate, friendships.

Being present with and releasing my shame, fear and anxiety. (sessions in a float tank have really helped) http://www.vice.com/video/tanks-for-the-memories-full-length This feels 75% done.

Living my present life purpose.-> I create settings and experiences that facilitate self connection and sensual expansion.

I strive to vitalize, deepen and democratize the meaning of relationship and use that expanded relationship model to foster authentic community. I intend to have my relationships operate openly and non-monogamously (aka polyamory ) Operationally this means my way of being with my partners nourishes and protects each partners sovereignty including the freedom to choose how and when they relate to others. Simply stated we all have the absolute right to love more or play more or have additional sweeties / romantic relationships / friendships. I intend use heartfelt communication and transparency to foster intimacy and communication in these relationships.
I’m really good at

Connecting with animals.

Non violent communication (NVC)

I see myself as good at being present with my emotions and the emotions of others.

Co-creating the conditions for extended massive orgasm / expanded orgasm.

Seeing situations from other people's perspectives..

Allowing people to make their own decisions.

Recognizing that ones self- inward directed and other- outward directed language creates ones experience I have been choosing to use language in the way that will create my blissful life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I like to play, laugh and clown around.
My mid pitch (Countertenor) voice.
I dress to please myself. I like to wear lots of colorful asymmetric nonlinear quasi random patterned clothing. I have been exploring wearing clothing culturally defined as for females.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love homemade veggie stir frys / Chinese food.

The ideas in the books below have positively transformed the way I relate with people.

Tears & Tantrums: What to do when babies and children cry. by Althea Solter.

Parent Effectiveness Training (2000 or later edition) by Thomas Gordon.

Between Parent & Child (1965), Between Teacher and child (1972) both by Dr. Haim G. Ginott

Non-Violent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg

I see the books above as great resources for all who wish to connect more deeply with themselves and with people of any age.
Six things I could never do without
My body.

People to talk with, learn from, marvel at and nurture.

A heart connection to a healthy, integrated ecology. Nature.

Vegetables, wild critters.

Freedom of speech. Freedom of conscience. Freedom of Religion. For everyone in society.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can inspire my species to reestablish a culture that nurtures freedom and expands the beauty, diversity and viability of our planet.

How to create built and grown spaces for people that entwine with nature and enrich both.

My interests include: profitable energy efficiency especially in home design, solar energy, intentional community, eprime, attachment parenting, non-violent communication NVC, edible landscaping permaculture
Keywords for searches: Asheville Buncombe county north carolina.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lyfting. Preparing for an outdoor adventure. At a cultural event. Snuggling with a friend or friends.

Planting maintaining the edible perennials in various places perhaps with the Buncombe Fruit Nuts and others.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I intend to move toward doing something that scares me every day.

I seek friends to share the adventure of co-creating memorable experiences with.

As of this moment my preference is to live in or near Asheville NC. And the Pacific Northwest calls to me in my dreams.

You should message me if
You desire to.

To share your passion(s). Tell me what you've been studying, what surprised you to learn, what motivates you. Tickle my mind. Share an experience that awakened your emotions and/or your senses. :)

If you will tell me about a marvel of nature that makes your heart sing or a way of interacting with the physical world that makes you thrilled to have a body.

You have anything to share that you experience as interesting.
The two of us