kawikafiola
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My self-summary
Update: i suck at this, so I give up

I keep telling myself that I'll find that special someone next year. That's been going on for 11 years now. As each year passes, I've found it harder and harder to bring myself to wanting to date. I can honestly say that I never expected to be single at this point in my life with no kids or not even being married.

It's not that I never wanted to settle down. I always wanted to but then life got in the way and I kept putting it on the back burner.

I have discovered a few things by being single for so long. I haven't conformed to being set in a singular lifestyle. Meaning, I'm not doing the same thing day in and day out. I'm constantly finding myself wanting to try new things and do new things. My ambitions are far different then those who are married and have kids. It's almost as though I'm being selfish. I don't feel as though my age reflects who I am. I don't feel old even though my body is starting to say different.

I'm finding it harder and harder to even want to chat with women on the internet. I read all these profiles that say how much they can't stand this or that. That they keep asking where all the good guys are, yet when I do gather enough energy to start a conversation with substance, I get ignored. What's the point in trying? What's the point of even giving people the time of day?

So here I sit in this internet ghetto trying to decide if I even want to put forth any energy or just say screw it and live the rest of my life single. I've made it 11 years so far, why not longer, right? However, on the other side of that coin, it would be nice to have someone to share memories with. I'm stuck in this conundrum.

Cons -

-I talk too much (vast amount of useless
knowledge).
-I'm sometimes all over the place (ADHD)
-I work too much (kills the boredom)
-I've been know to complain
-I have a hard time making a simple
decision
-I have an addiction to auctions (comes
And goes)
-I sometimes get overwhelmed when it
comes to organizing
-I've been known to be too
compassionate
-sometimes I'm too smart for my own
good
-I make mistakes on a daily basis
-I consider my IQ (150-160)to be a pain in my butt more then it helps.
-I tend to micro manage time when traveling. Hate it

Pos-
-Total smart arse
-I wear my heart on my sleeve
-I've never cheated
-loyal to a fault
-I believe in helping all those that need
help
-I have a strong character
-I have good intentions
-I can hold a good conversation
-Try to live by the motto "live, love, laugh"
-I'm an alpha male
What I’m doing with my life
My work ethics are beyond most, which most likely came from my father.
I’m really good at
Solving other people's problems
Building and repairing homes
Metal fabrication
Fixing vehicles (even though it gets old)
Pretty much fixing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I rarely watch TV but my father got me hooked on this show called, Justified.

When it come to music, I have a lot of just about every genre there is but punk is my favorite and always has been. Mike Ness is one of my favorite musicians

Everybody wants a lover
Nobody wants to uncover
What may lay deep beneath a sometimes painful past
My heart is heavy slowly sinking
I redirect my desperate thinking
And kiss her red full lips like I did the very first time.
Six things I could never do without
I'm a simple person with simple needs. Six is a lot. I would say;
My family
My friends
A good cup of coffee.....the bad stuff can go!

The others will be discovered as I get there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I'm going to change myself to be a better person. <-----I'm constantly working on this

Oh and that there are way to many profiles on this site to keep track of. It's become an art form...... click, read and go.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I ended up with a lung injury while I was in Alaska. Now I can only use my lungs at 1/2 capacity 😞
You should message me if
You're not going to waste my time!

Someone that actually wants to do something. ie museums, sight seeing, or anything that is out of the norm.

New friends are always a good thing. A good adventure with memories is worth more to me then nothing at all.

You've dropped out of space camp, like to camp and enjoy exercising. Traveling is a must. I love to go on road trips and travel all over.

If you're into cars, trucks and hot rods.
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The two of us
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